Hi guys,

I'm 23 years old and I want to learn how to build attraction, n-close, k-close, f-close and etc on girls.

Right now, I feel more comfortable to approach one girl per set than two or more girl per set. Even though I get AA, walk around for two hours and I know I lose tons of opportunity to approach tons of girls. Please give any advise.

I had a mission today which was to get two n-close and it took me two hours to approach two girls.

First girl in the stairway.

Tri: hey, I love your style.
Hb7.5: thank you
Tri: are you late for class?
Hb7.5: I work here.
Tri: you look like your going to the gym.
Hb7.5: actually, after work
Tri: okay, give me 2 minute. *Hand shake* i'm Ken.
Pause
Tri: can I get your number?
Hb7.5: no
*walks away into her office.*

Posture 3/10.
Eye contact: 3/10
Smile: 5/10

Didn't get a n-close.
I could have kept the conversation going like "What workout are you doing today?" or "you can be my personal trainer and can't skip leg day". What do you guys think?

Walking down the hallway. Girl sitting in the hallway
Tri: hey do you know where room 220 is?
Hb6.5: down the hallway
Tri: I don't care where room 220 is. I want to say I love your style.
Hb6.5: oh thank you
Sits down next to her.
Tri: Hi, I'm Tri.
*Hand shake*
Hb6.5: I'm (name).
Tri: unique name.
Hb6.5: Thank you.
Tri: do you have a nickname?
Hb6.5: no.
Tri: are you studying for a midterm?
Hb6.5: just a test
Tri: oh just a test. You look like you didn't want to come to school today.
Hb6.5: yeah, actually I didn't want to.
Pause. Silence
Tri: I got to meet up a friend. Can I get your number?
Hb6.5: okay.
I gave her my phone and she entered her number.

Should I have ask "what is your number?" instead. Do I need to keep the conversation going a bit longer?

Posture 3/10.
Eye contact: 3/10
Smile: 5/10

Advise is appreciated.

Day 2:

WTF!! I literally walked for 3 hours around the mall and didn't approach any girl. Even though God had gave me so much chance to go approcah girls.

I should start with small goals first.
1. create banter
2. Build rapport
3. Actually try to notice the girls reaction.

My excuse not to approach are going blank while talkong and getting rejected.

Your first goal is to break your AA. Many ways to do it but I find these three steps useful:

1) Eye contact: in a public place, look at someone in the eye (guy or girls, but guys are usually harder); when the person notices you, hold the eye contact until the other person looks away. If the person comes to you and ask what's your problem, just say the person looks like one of your friend who's supposed to be away.

2) Singing: walk into a public place with an iPod, and sing one of your favorite song loud enough for people around to hear.

3) Opinion opener level 0: approach a girl, say you're not from here, ask if there's a good coffee around, ask her if she goes there often, ask her why she likes the place. Don't bother choosing a girl, just go for the first one that comes--HB or ugly, alone, with BF, with GF... Or if you can, do it with a friend and ask him to chose the girl.

Good luck.

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We do what we have to do in order to do what we want to do.

Golden. Stealing this. Would make my day.

I can only imagine the looks on people's faces when I prance through on my high horse screeching "I've had the time of my life"

S/n: black guy, terrible singing voice

I will give it a try.

Singing in public will definitely help me get out of the comfort zone.