Hello PUA's,
It all started on a slightly active night. It was in spain during the great summer holidays.
I locked eyes with this beautiful blond haired girl and went in to approach. Later I discovered she was already interested in someone else and would not take me in return. However, the act of approaching her did good for approaching her friend who was next to her. I started talking with this polish girl and eventually I kissed her.
I immediately got her phone number and even was foolish enough to believe her on her word and not to call her number. Luckily for me, it was the real deal.
The next day, I wanted to visit her since I had no game for years for various reasons.
I had a nice day on the beach where I teased her (yes guys, just being confident) and even turned over the competition who was constantly clinging around her (this is the guy you don't want to be, the guy who doesn't dare to make the move). Ultimately, I spend the day with her just minding my own business and not really having any real plans; not even kissing.
It is evening now, and after a few (but not enough) drinks and dancing, I did something I never have done before; I followed her to a club that is totally out of my comfort zone; A place for people who wish to Tango and ChaChaCha. I tried it and failed miserably but I did it, once again, with confidence. I watched the people around having fun with people they don't even know. I couldn't help but not feeling satisfied myself.
Time passes and the boredom kicks in; We move out and I take her to my place. I once again did a thing I'd never dared before; I boldly asked her if I should bring condoms to the beach which I intended to go. (Note: notice how I never asked her if she wanted to have sex, because who wouldn't if they can?) She said yes.
So we go to the beach, choose a well unlit place where nobody can see you; Here is the fun, you can see everyone else; So naturally while you are at it you see people passing by and you can't help but think, do they see or hear us? This excites the moment even more!
After a long session of around 20 minutes (this is with condom people, anyone can last long with a condom) I haven't been more satisfied in such a long time.
I still have contact with her although she has a boyfriend now. She is faithful. I have no romantic feelings for her (any more). She became one of my female friends who is willing to advice me on how a woman thinks.
Moral of the story?
1. Be confident, even if you fail, it is not adepting to the scene that makes you fail; Remember to own the place, the place doesn't own you!
2. Even if it was something fleeting; Remember, even the unavailable woman can become a beacon of information for your next girl.
3. Have fun; Adding extra motives to your interaction with people will only stain the relationship. If you can't hold back on feeling a certain way, you aren't ready.
I hope you people can enjoy the story as much as I lived it
