| One of the reasons I like my job is I get face time with hundreds of customers every day. It has given me time to practice "opening" and talking to people (I know its in a forced business situation, but there are qualities to it). I especially have been practicing giving pretty girls "the look" and seeing wonderful results.
Now the thing is I never noticed this newish guy working on the other end of the restaurant from me. He is a thin short mexican. Like I could hug him to death thin. I never really thought of it before, but I could see him being called hansome. He has this charming wide smile, and certainly has this pleasing demeanor. He is playful and heartwarming. He doesnt have any money, but I must say, I myself was charmed by him when he brought me one of our food items with a candle he had drawn on it, and sang me happy birthday, as it was my birthday. It did make me feel cared for. He certainly is a silver tongued devil!
So this guy. He banged this one chick at my work, and then he banged another, and then we went to hang out at a bar and he pulled some chick, and today he charmed some young girl at work, and he left work a bit early to go hang out at some party she was going to, and I bet he banged her too. I took this guy salsa dancing with me last week, not necessarily cause I wanted to bring him, but because I wanted to see what he would do. He was kinda out of his element being new at the club and all, but he seemed to have no problem jumping right in and fraternizing with some women. I was shocked to later learn that, with literally no dancing skills, he had walked up to the hottest pro dancer and asked to dance with her, completely unaware that he was being shown up the whole time dancing with her. He didnt give a fuck! He just went for it, completely ignorant of what mess he had stepped into!
So there are some points I have noticed from this guy that I think are reasons why things work well for him;
-smile and focus. I hate it when coworkers sit and chat, but for this guy I cant help but make an exception, because he always seems to find the time to give a great big charming smile and his full, focused attention to one of the girls at work. The girls seem to have no problem being the actor on his stage, doing their best to make sure their performance is the one winning his heart. I on the other hand, am cold, cool and trying to seem confident, but this is not working well for me as far as attracting women.
-playfully breach the kino line. My dad was a cop, and i was taught strictly that touching without permission is illegal. I struggle with kinoing without permission. This guy, on the other hand, has no problem sneaking up behind me and poking my ticklish sides while I am in the zone working. Usually this would make me turn around angrily and chew out anyone who did this. I told this guy before, if it was anyone else, it would not have been cool.
-stop giving a fuck and jump into the situation! Mystery's 3 second rule comes into memory here. There is a reason for this; its ok. It's all ok. The person you are when you just jump into trying to talk to a girl, is the person that has the best chance of succeeding. Girl's think its cute when youre fumbling around trying to talk to them. They know what you want. They think it's brave of you trying your best. They know it's hard; after all, it's too hard for a woman to do. They will give you a chance if they can, provided you just try.
There is more but its late and I am too tired to remember the rest, maybe I will post more later.
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