Started my (almost)everyday daygame journey. Giude? Advice?



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PostPosted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 8:42 pm 
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I just started the daygame and I'm happy cause I can maintin a conversation on street with a girl I approach, actully happy because I build fast. Reason I'm posting is that I wish to learn the (day)game fast, so you can give me some guide, being it some links where to look, or things to start searching for and opinions. Thatks guys!

My current story:
I moved to a new city, where I joined a friend there to start a kinda business. We rented an apartment where we live and where we do the taks we have to accomplish, but it becomes hard to engage into doing that because of low social interaction. Only person I hang out with is him, the person I know, but just some walks, because he's not into clubs and stuff. He just have his own life and couple of 2-3 girls that visit him regularly to get laid. I'm now used to have them in the apartment where we live but this makes me think more and more to do something with my current situation. Like I must not waste time but go out and get girls fast, in other words makes me attached to the goal where I shouldn't be, but there are times when you don't remember to not attach, so I fall into the intrusive thoughts paradigm, that makes things harder around for me (not about picking our girls, but detroying my concentration), where I find myself doing things under the clock. I'm searching over the PUA documentation to see how to approach this all situation and get back into the present moment and allow things to come by themselves into life, because I kinda feel every stuff like a burden (eating, surfing internet, reading, working stuff I like, guitar playing). If you had a kinda same experience how did you approached it? I have no problem with the situation but I'm affraid for me.

Ok, back to the game!
It took me some months to start making it happen to go out to game... because you are always put in the choice of not playing it because you have something else important to do. Crap! Not true, you always have time for game :)) I go even it I'm tired (that was day 2).

#day 1 july/20/2015:
Took me a long walk on city streets before figuring through my hesitation to start making conversation with girls I find to like.
Girl #1: Stoped her telling "Wait a minute, you seem interesting, I want to know you"... and walked away :))
Girl #2: This happened to be the approach that opened my eyes. Was a girl studying on a bench in the park. I asked what she's reading there, and she looked at me without saying a word. I told miself to wait and greet her with a smile. That changed the things and she told me... and a couple of another question and bam, out because I din't knew what to say next, or actually to do next. What I realized here is that the opener does not count (is just a thing to draw her attention to place the hook) and what counts is the hook, and than the relaxed talking. While opening, what counts is the posture (keeping the feet planted and if I make a step, i loose her, so they came to me the next daygame (day 2) :)) ).
Girl #3: What a crap approach :))

The problem I get is that when I stay in home, this small limited universe where I live makes me think that I will be alone for ever. And the game won't work to start making new friends. I know this is not real, but comes hard to believe. I always try to think about positive things, but is so hard.

I don't want to be long in words, so I will write the day #2 in a reply which was a success (fast and good shifting), that you can advice me even there. I'm very focused on getting good fast - the only thing I'm fully engaged white the current life is the game. I started a blog that will convey my journey so that's a second reason to game. I will be posting there (and even here), and trying to go our every day to game the city.
I looked for PUA's last months but found nothing (just a guy like me who I went gaming with him for 1 week and after he lost his interest)... just an entire city for me (Cluj-Napoca, Romania) Cool!


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 10:03 pm 
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Here is daygame #2 (the next day) July/21/2015 - accomplished 7 approaches.

You have a really good feeling of accomplishement when you return home. And I heard Tyler Durden in a youtube video where he told how to come about the success in game to not destroy it: placing the success on the # of approaches you do, not on the things you are not used to yet! And he is right, because you will try to force the things in your set to get a desired result (being number, insta'date etc.), instead of letting the situation to tell it's own story, based on the actions you provide. So if you manage to draw her attention, you accomplised 1 succees.

What I realized on day #2 was that they are drawn into your reality, like you are the star and they want to be part of your movie. So i had a couple of interesting conversation where I found myself doing like 80% of the conversation (I love to talk), but the same time, a bit hard to lower the energy and let them talk. So I will work on this things.

Before breaking the day, my plan is to go out everyday and make 3 warm_up approaches and 4 single sets, so a total of 7 approaches. I said that I will learn to game the 2+ sets in the future, but now to focus on the 1 set which is kinda hard.

Day #2
Again, a long walk figuring out through my hesitation to start talking. The harder thing is to make the 1st approach and after that it is game on!

Girl #1 hb 8: She was walking and I said "hey wait a minute"... she told me she can't. She runned to buy a ticket and run into the bus.
Girl #2 hb 7: A cute blonde girl that I vibed really well with. She looked so into the conversation I stroke with her. <<Last day I analysed myself, that I'm really laid back, not willing to pull the entire trigger and not doing simple kino. So things solved!>> She was comming from the front and right when she was close to me, (I don't know how to explain how I acted with my hands in the air :)) ) but said something that I heard at Sasha daygame: "Hey, wait a minute, don't scare, I'm not crazy" so she was surpized. After I proceeded telling a hook I figured while walking the streets "I want to know you... but I kinda can't decide myself if to do it. We should talk a bit" :)) This worked really well on my next approaches (i think). She said: "Wow, I appreaciate your courage!". And started my 80% talking about my interesting stuff that i was keen at the time, and she was really into it too and contributed a bit (on places where i stopped talking :)) ) and when I forget what to day I asked for name, shaking her hand. Discution continuea... I scuzed myself that "We could continue this conversation another time, but now I got to go, give me your phone no". She refused telling that she will leave a facebook. Whateva, in my mind :)) And gave me the datails. And details about when is she on..., she sked if I'm from here and all sort. After I ended with "nice to meet you" while touching her on the shoulder. That's the kino I used.
Girl #3: hb 6: She was watching me without saying a word to the things I said. I had major pauses trying to find the words. I pointed to something she had in had telling me: "oh, that's from my boyfriend". So I left her... but could have said "Who's the lucky guy" to see if she hesitates. Next time! :))

4 girls left where i will tell just the 2 that hooked:
#no1 hb 7: Same story like the blonde one: 80% conversation and I ended the interaction after 1 minute where she wanted to talk more. No contact for me... But good thing I found in my game is that I have great excuses to all the tests they put on me :))
#no2 hb 8: Was a little cute rocker girl who was comming in front of me, pointing to her asking about her hair "Why green and blue". She stopped to answer and continued... but engaging her again streching my hand gently "Alex, nice to meet you" so we started to talk and in the conversation she sain "Umm, I always get approached by guys". I gave my answer in a funny manner "Amateurs or suduction artists"... she replied "amateurs" :)) Yeah, I ended the interaction after 1 minute again leaving with her contact.

I will try to make 7 approaches everyday. My pick_up anatomy at the moment is approach, hook and some sort of conversation where 80% is my talking. It is like my mouth was imprisoned for years and now it is free :)) Building confort at the moment is made by funny excuses and some sort of deep connection. How can I improve this stage of the game (what to add i mean)? What tricks and tweacks you suggest to bring in the building confort? I will be happy to search them in the internet.

Conclusion: The game is very interesting and I love it. I'm happy cause I found out about it. I feel blessed in comparison to the other guys I walk by, that i can strike a conversation with almost anyone... And puts you into state!

So tomorrow I'l try to proceed on daygame #3, terrorzing my entire city!


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