So tonight I went drinking with a friend at a local pub. There we met my friend’s recent new friend (who turns out was gay). Then that same guy introduced us to his friends: 2 guys and 2 girls. All of them were spanish, so it was pretty easy to get the conversation going.
Ok so I’m making a move on the girl I find the hottest (not acting too interested though) and she seems to be into me. After some kino, I isolate her, leading her by my hand, and she offers no resistance. We talk some more, but suddenly her friends say they’re going, but not without inviting me and my friend to tag along. We do.
So we arrive at the dance club. She got all of us in without paying because apparently she “knows people”. We get inside and start dancing.
Now here’s a little off-topic: I noticed her friends danced pretty well, they just grabbed her and started dancing. She was totally into it. I’ve decided to take some dance lessons next week, since I pretty much just go with the music vibe, I haven’t the foggiest idea on how to dance with a girl
Back on track. I want to isolate her. I probably took too long to do this because I was thinking of a conversation topic that I hadn’t brought up before. When I think of one, I grab her hand again and lead her downstairs. She asks “where are you taking me?”, I just smile and keep going. No resistance.
We get there, I put myself against the wall, and she’s in front of me. I start talking about where does she want to go when she’s done with her college degree. She starts talking, but throws a “why are you asking me this?” in between. I just kept talking and asking questions – and all this time I’m doing the triangular gaze.
So I try to pull her with my leg (have had success using this one before) and try to kiss her, but she gives me the cheek. I play it cool. She doesn’t seem to be in a hurry, so I just keep talking. I touch her hands, her hair, try to escalate. Then I try to kiss again – same result. I decided to give up. We talk a few seconds more and then we go upstairs to her friends again. Me and my friend waited a couple of songs more, then said goodbye and came home.
Now, I have to say she had all the attention in the world from her friends – while the other girl, a little shy, got close to none.
So… I dunno, tell me what you guys think went wrong in there. I think the worst offence was taking too long to isolate in the dance club.
I think I did kinda good with conversation and kino, since she had no resistance to me isolating her. The dancing bit, though, got me really self-conscious about not knowing shit about dancing. Oh well, at least I’m glad I tried and overall I had a pretty fun time!
Cheers!
CHAT