Hi people,

Some context: I have been in the game since about half a year, a few months after my ex dumped me and I finally could let her go in my mind and heart. I have had 4 dates, but could not even kiss close... (and the last one was very very close to a real close... and it blew away...) but that is for another field report...

About this field report, which happened yesterday evening: I feel a little fool now as the encounter had not much meaning... it was with a young pretty woman I had chatted with a couple of times. She has a boyfriend, she told me before, and so I had no expectation. Besides, it was not a great moment from a logistic perspective, she was in a hurry, "just a coffee", she said. I tried to get my body language right but as I did not taped the encounter I am not sure how well I did. With so little time I could do no escalation. But I finished with a "kiss me... here" line... and I got the compliance! As a matter of fact her face was so close that I was tempted to kiss close...

I feel a bit lost... So much game study and in the field I can not apply all the rules... I simple try to do the best I can... no more no less... I know ... outcome independence... I think I need more rejections...

Peace.