| So yesterday I had a total mix of a PUA/AFC moment (I know that sounds contradicting but let me explain).
Last week I posted a field report involving me meeting, gaming and making out with one girl while my main girl was staying in. Now, I don't necessarily cheat, me and my main girl have been seeing each other, fucking, and going on dates for a month now but haven't taken it "facebook official" as they say. My libido has convinced my brain that we're still in an open relationship.
Anyways...Saturday night the main girl stays at my place. We wake up sunday and decide to head to a street fair together. We're having a nice time and holding hands walking around the town, when I look up and literally 10 feet in front of me, and walking straight towards us on the sidewalk is the HB8 from last week. When I saw her, i was in the middle of a sentence and out of panic I totally raised my voice (noticeably loud) to finish the sentence to my girl. This caused the HB to look up just as we were 2 feet from each other. (if I had shut up she might have just kept looking at her phone and walked past us). We made eye contact as we walked past each other, I watched her eyes drift down to my mine and my girlfriends hands, I got shot a look of disgust, we turned away from each other and that was it.
Me and the HB had originally made plans to hang out again, lets just say I'm not going to make that text anymore. I know the difference between the right time to push it and maintain frame control, and when to completely fuck off. Trust me guys, this girl's expression was "fuck off until you can't possibly fuck off any more."
Meh. So anyways, it was slight PUA-like to be having my girls running into each other in a large city, but my reaction was 110% AFC. In hindsight, I would have called her name the second I saw her, introduced the two, and played it cool. Instead I panicked and made a horribly awkward situation.
I guess the moral of the story (and something I'm still working on) is pickup never stops. It doesn't stop when you're home by yourself, out sarging, or in the middle of a 3some with twins. If you embrace pickup, it should be something you accept as a lifestyle not as a hobby. My mistake was simply thinking "I had sex twice last night, once this morning, and now I'm out holding hands with my girl. I don't need to be 'gaming'." Not only was my mentality shit at the time, but so was my image. I was wearing ill fitting clothes that I had thrown on last second, and my hair was a mess. Even if you're not necessarily going out "sarging" your pickup self should still be an influence on your regular self. From confidence, to personal hygiene and so on.
That's it for tonight, so happy sarging bitches.
-T.R.
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