Gents,
If you are pressed for time, just read the last paragraph (including the conversation). I’d appreciate if you would criticize my style, give me some tips, or inform me of general principles which I should learn. Read the 6th paragraph (second to last one) for a laugh. I WANT TO USE MORE SEXUAL OPENERS FROM NOW ON when I can get away with them [i.e. kiss openers in loud clubs; these are not whack - Richard la Ruina even recommends these at times]. Use them at your own discretion and don’t sue me if you get in trouble.
I remember gaming chicks in Gaslamp and PB in San Diego in the old days. i had a fake ID. Yet, the people in that town were chill and laid back in those times and my nights were rarely eccentric. Lol – Maybe SD people are just cooler or just carry themselves better than these East Texas cowboys and cowgirls. Plus, I saw a brutal fight tonight.
My night started out shitty. I was in a depressed mood for legitimate reasons and I took a nap to snap myself out of it. i am rarely depressed, but the nap helped tremendously.
I met up with a certain gentleman who just moved to Houston and he is on a self-improvement forum. He is white, attractive, 6’3″, and 230 lbs. I don’t expect to consistently pull women when I am in set with him since most girls will choose him over me. But, I’ll try it a few sometimes to distract some girls for him. But, he, another smooth player (who just got divorced), and I have formed a posse and will dominate the Sunday funday scene in Houston.
I got blown out several times at Local Pour; what can you expect? At least 3 out of 10 dudes in there looked like muscular models and it was a sausagefest. Then, a la good-looking loser style, I went bar-hopping at Midtown. SCREENING, baby! It was 1:40 AM and I had been REJECTED or BLOWN OUT by at least 15-25 girls. What didn’t help was my lack of good eye contact and the fact that I WAS NOT IN STATE UNTIL 1:30 AM or so. But, I focused on having a mindset of detachment from any outcome and this gave me balls to move forward with boldness. While at the last bar of the night, I met a girl who seemed receptive, but she blew me out when I tried to move her to the smoking area since it was fucken loud in there.
Then I saw a cute group of girls and one of them basically ran a sexual opener for me. She slapped her friend’s ass and blamed me. I got slapped in the face (but, not too hard). Her friend whispered in my ear: “Don’t deny it. She’ll like you for it.” I forget how I cooled her off. I must’ve said something like: “O, know you’re not madl I know you’re a sweet girl on the inside.” So, I bascially ran instafuck game on her. Talked to her for 2 minutes, met her friends, admitted that I liked her etc., then got their permission to isolate her. My dick eventually got hard and she was rubbing up against it. I probably could have pulled her into the bathroom at that point, but for some reason, I didn’t think that the right moment had arrived. I tried to extract her, but she said she needed to go home with friends. I even tried to see if I could meet up with her later, but she lives with her mom since she is in college. Right when bathroom time was approaching, security was clearing out the venue since it was 2 AM. That is my 4th attempt at an instafuck. I got her number early on, made plans, but leads of this type are obviously not very reliable.
So, I was walking back to my truck; it was 2:15 AM. I saw a two set and told the less pretty chick: “Hey, I know its late, but I have a confession to make. I happen to think that your friend is cute.” [Usually I say something afterword like: "Is she cool?" "I shouldn't run away from her, right?" but I didn't.]
HB 1: “We are totally not in the mood to be spoken to. She’s not interested. Buzz off. You shouldn’t have told me since I’m not gonna be your wingwoman”
Me: “O okay. I totally understand. You’re probably a nice girl; you just put up this attitude since there are a lot of douchebags out there. O, if only my friend Chris was with me right now. He is 6’3″, 230 lbs; he’d be just your type.” I turn to HB 2 whom I liked: “Well, I know that there is a lot of social pressure on you since your friend doesn’t like me and I am not going to push things forward. But, maybe we will meet later on by chance….perhaps when we are shopping at Kroger for groceries. Tell me your name.” [Mutual introduction of ourselves]
HB2: “Have you already called a taxi?”
Me: “No, I brought my car.”
HB2: Can you give us a ride home? We live by Allen Parkway.
Me: “Yea sure. I am totally okay with that. You promise not to pull a gun on me, right?” -> Then, we pinky promised to not to do so to one another.
Then HB2 insisted that her friend join who then refused to ride home with me since she thought that I was some “random” guy. HB2 then ignores her friend and insists on me taking her home. I should have given her friend my number, but it didn’t cross my mind. We were walking to my car which was about 4-5 minutes away. I wasn’t too sexual with her at this point, did some light kino on the walk, and mostly just acted cool and laid back. It was in a parking garage. When we were about 40 seconds away, she got scared that it was indoors and said: “how do I know that I can trust you?”
Me: “Just look me in the eyes and tell for yourself.”
HB2: I can’t tell just from that.
Me: “Girl, you know I’m here to protect you.” Then I started walking to my car as if I was expecting her to follow. I looked back (which I shouldn’t have done) and she had stayed put.
HB2: “Can we walk back and pick up my friend also?”
Me: My car is like 30 seconds away. Let’s drive over there and pick her up.
HB2: “Can you drive over and pick up my friend and me?”
I should have gotten her # at this point, but I didn’t. Another mistake – It took me a long time to drive over there on account of traffic and they weren’t there when I returned.
O well…..I simply need to eat more protein next time so that my brain functions better and be more attentive to the moment via common sense.
-Nice Guy PUA
CHAT