Single's awareness : The anti v day outing

Met up with a girlfriend and her roommates to go out for valentine's day. There were 4 girls including my friend in the room when I walked into the apartment. The 3 other girls were sitting on different couches under a blanket listening to the TV. The girls originally had plans with some guys they wanted to have sex with but the fellas ended up going to the strip club instead. Stupid of them, I know! I bring some wine and other alcoholic beverages to spice things up. All but one girl gets up. This girl, Susan, is having some self-esteem problems. She just wants to be loved for one night. The guy she wants is out at the strip club she doesn't feel pretty or cute the list goes on. Shes telling me all these things and I give her a pep talk to get her out of the house and the rest of us to the bar. We go over some dance moves have some drinks and we all head to the bar. Susan is a shorter chubbier girl not many guys first pick, shes not the most out going and her personality isn't one that screams “I'm fun lets have sex!”. We get to the bar and have a couple of shots. The girls preceded to the dance floor and I make rounds striking up conversation with other women. I go to the dance floor to check on the girls and there still dancing by themselves. No guy has made a move yet. Susan dances with me for a little bit I go make another round. Susan does have a nice ass and she can diffidently grind. We dance several times throughout the night I saved her from a couple creepy dudes she wasn't feeling and danced some more. The end of the night comes. I'm dancing with another girl club starts kicking people out I get Jessica's number, piece of cake no big deal text her to meet up with her later. I meet up with Susan and the rest of the girls to head back to their place. Susan is upset and depressed that no guy asked for her number and that was going home alone or in her words “No dick for me tonight”. I look at her “I'd fuck you”. In my head it was the right thing to say build up her confidence make her feel good possibly hit it later. But all it did was make her upset. The way I said made it seem like she was a last resort. We arrived at their place and she storms in her room and locks the door because of my little comment. Her girlfriends are pretty indifferent but point is I fucked that up. But I know I could have if I built the sexual tension earlier or even before we left the club. If I got to the kiss it would've been game over for her. So here is the question:
How to pull that sexual trigger. Do I kiss her neck do I nibble her ear etc? What do I need to do to escalate that sexual tension without doing to much to be creepy and to forward. One the kissing starts it's game over I got it from there but getting to that point is still tricky.

It's all about testing and trading their interest for yours. Women generally are not direct creatures and stating "I would fuck you" after she's been miserable for the entire night will not get you laid lol! Where's the passion/love/emotion for her if you say that to her? That subconsciously says "I'm horny and I'm sorry you're lame/ugly, but I'll have pity sex with you."

Going out with girls in a group is about the worst thing you could do from my exp. It has only ever lead to confusion esp on my part. Girls that are not interested will flirt with you and cause problems simply cuz they know they won't go past with you that so there is no harm in it.

Sounds to me you weren't all that interested in this girl sexually anyway. Honestly, just because you COULD have POTENTIALLY fucked a girl BC you are educated in PUA or WE, doesn't mean you should.

If you wanted this girl enough, instead of going around hitting on other girls, you should have focused on her a little more. You know the basics: make sure she is interested, eye contact, light touch, don't smother, show your value etc. see if she wants you. You don't go from no interest from the girl to nibbling her neck. This is supposed to be a SMOOTH process with SLIGHT escalation through TIME.

I don't know any girls even fat ugly deprived dick girls that would want a pity fuck.... it's just not sexy....