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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 12:24 pm 
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Summary: So the girl(ive been sarging for a couple of days in my school, attracted to me) is wid her male friend nd a female friend, sitting on a bench.I was unsure whether to approach or not so i asked her frm a distance tht can i talk to her.She says com on here (wid her frnds).I sit, she introduces me to her male frnd who was new.

She's doing architectural engineering so i teased her (2 days ago) tht u shud teach me drawing so m ur student n u r my teacher, to wich she agreed while laughing..

So today i tease her the same way tht give me some tips.She tells me to make a drawing n i make a funny one.Then somehow she asks me to make another drawing but tells me to sit somewhere far, to which i refused in a funny way tht its too far.Anyhow i start making tht drawing n all of a sudden, she gets so pissed off n says "Ok this is too much. I am not ur teacher n u r not my student.Please leave now" I try to be cool n funny but she gets even more pissed off n i had to come back

DETAILS: I had a feeling frm the beginning tht she was not cmfortable wid that male friend.First i waited by sitting a bit far out, saw her for IOIS and all three of them (she,male frnd n female frnd) looked at me as if she told them about me.So i took it as an IOI n went there n approached.

First she welcomed me, she was funny, introduced me to her male friend. But then she strted to give me Indications tht i shud leave now (wich i didnt understand at that time).Any how just before she blew me out, she asked her frnd wats upp n she said "I m getting bored". N Just after a few secs she blew me out all of a sudden.

Now i think i did a few thngs wrong may b so need ur help plz

1) She didnt wanted me to approach wid her male friend so i approached at the wrong time

2) I AMOGED the male frnd (unintentionally) in trying to be funny, which she didnt find good.

3) My conversation got boring as i focused more on drawing rather than conversation. Though i was still making comments as i was making the drawing but i think she didnt find it interesting.

4) Lastly, I have a reputation problem (for being a PUA) at school so may b all she wanted was to play wid me fr a couple of days n never had an intention to actually be frnds with me

I really like this girl N i am feeling very bad about wat happened today.But I cant understand wat exactly went wrong.Any help wud b great.I have 2 qs if some one cud ans it wud b great.
1) Wat did i do wrong ??
2) Is it over (coz she really looked annoyed) Or do i have a chance wid her if I game right next time??

Plzzz HELP :(

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 12:51 pm 
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Why are you wasting your time making posts?

She simply doesn't like you. You make it sound like just by talking to her, she has no option but to be attracted to you.

Pick up is a numbers game, find the girls that DO like you. That will be fruitful.

If you have this "PUA rep" at school then try to act like it and chase women that like you.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 3:11 pm 
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Pick up is a numbers game, find the girls that DO like you. That will be fruitful.
Totally agree... But ive made almost 50 approaches now (in school) in almost 2 months period.. N every time result is the same.
The girl is attracted in the beginning but then all of a sudden she blows me.

N even the other girls they give me IOIS all the time. But when i get to talk to them the same cycle happens again n again.

So i think something is wrong wid my Game cant understand wat exactly.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 4:13 pm 
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This is one of those things where unfortunately it's being told from your point of view. However, I don't know if you are actually coming across as charming. It seems to me that you may actually be annoying by attempting to be funny all of the time. That can get old pretty quickly. If I were you I would figure out if you are actually developing a bond with these girls by actually making a conversation with them and let them feel like you are actually interested in them as people.

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 6:01 pm 
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If you have zero results then usually a massive fundamental issue. Ask people that have met you of a possible feedback that might cause girls to repel

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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2014 8:19 pm 
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If you're getting those kind of results then you must be doing something wrong - but it's clearly something you can't see. If you can't see it, it won't be in your post, and if it's not in your post there's no way we can pick it out for you. Best to ask for feedback from people who know you.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 05, 2014 9:11 pm 
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If I were you I would figure out if you are actually developing a bond with these girls by actually making a conversation with them and let them feel like you are actually interested in them as people.
This is one problem ive been facing not only with the girls but also with guys, "developing a bond". I interact with a lot of people, they admire me, even talk very normally but they never become my "best friends" type friend or u can say tha one buddy.

The only thing I ve figured out with guys is they start getting jeloused.Now it may sound bragging but if u've read THE GAME i face similar situation to wat happened to STYLE at the end.All of em started ignoring him all of a sudden.

With i guys i understand this coz most of em can't accept some one getting a really hot girl (specially in the society here). But with girls I cant understand Y.Its not like i didnt have any friends. I had some friends who were very nice to me but they too were frankupto a very limited level.

Any suggestion regarding this would b great.

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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 12:01 am 
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I'm still a newbie and have trouble with school encounters. Do you approach girls who are all in the same social circle? If you approach a girl and it goes badly, she'll usually talk to her friend about it, discounting her friend as well.

That's at least what I've experienced, but keep in mind I haven't opened many sets yet.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 2:32 pm 
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Do you approach girls who are all in the same social circle? If you approach a girl and it goes badly, she'll usually talk to her friend about it, discounting her friend as well.

That's at least what I've experienced, but keep in mind I haven't opened many sets yet.
Yes thts exactly wats happening. Even if the girl likes me she cant accept it infront of her friend (coz she'll usually say like HES THT PUA DONT GO FOR HIM) n even if she wants to she'll just go wid her frnd.

This particular issue is common in Asian society.Very Conservative.Sick of it.

Do u mind if i ask u from which country u belong ??

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