Hey

So after the last few months where i literally didnt cold approach anything and didnt even try to get laid, i lost a lot of the skills that i already built upon.

Specifically the approach anxiety is back and makes approaches impossibly hard.

So ive decided to take on "Good Looking Loser's Approach Anxiety Program"
which is a series of day after day drills and steps to follow to conquer approach anxiety and social anxiety.

Google it when you have a moment, its totally free.

The First drill was simple, go up to 5 women and ask for the time, then immediatly leave. It doesnt matter what they say or how you say it, just the fact you can say it counts as an approach albeit really basic.



So i decided ill do it, i leave my apartment and decide to walk to the shopping center instead of taking the bus so i can encounter more people

First woman i see walking towards me i say "hey, excuse me do you have the time?"
Shes australian and has 2 kids with her, she gives me the time and i walk off

i walk to mcdonalds along the way to get a iced coke cos australia is a fucking volcano right now, and first girl i see i approach and ask for the time.
Shes young, around 18, blond and sitting down, she takes a few moments to get her phone out of her purse to tell me the time which i thought was nice.

i get my drink and leave to the grocery store.
i see a slim brunette with a tight ass, i walk quickly around the aisle so i will be walking past her, as shes walking past i say the exact same thing i said to the other 2 but she says
"sorry i actually dont have the time (smile)"
i say "no worries" and walk off

theres no more girls around so i decide to walk to the shopping center, along the way theres an indian lady and her kid crossing i ask her for the time and she tells me...cool

The last girl i decide is something ive wanted to try, most asian girls i approach freak out on me...i think its because im brown...

So i pick out an asian girl, she is on her phone, i walk up to her and when i start talking she reels back a little bit. i say the exact same thing and she shakes her head and squeaks out a 'no" and i walk off while shes still in shock.

now as i was apporaching i remembered to do everything in my body language correctly, smile, eye contact, voice tone etc.

at the end of the day it was interesting to experiment which ones responded and which ones didnt.
especially the asian girl.

anyways the next drill is to approach 10 women next time...ill see how many asian women i can ask so i can understand it more..

My opinion.. Good job. You're getting out of your comfort zone. Keep it up, there are routines that bounce off of asking for the time so when you feel comfortable just walking up and asking for the time try out a quick n-close on a cute girl. Ask for the time when she tells you the time thank her and ask her if she lives in the area and how does she like the city. Pick one word (or subject) that is in her reply and make a statement about it.
Just say what ever pops into your head. She'll say something, you say something. Now you are in a conversation. Do all that playful PU and kino shit that you've learned up until this point and close at a high point in the interaction. I suggest getting a simple number because it's an easy starting place.

You: "Hi, do you have the time..."
Her: "Yeah, it's 11 or some shit"
You: "Thanks. Are you from this area"
Her: "Yes"
You: "I've lived here blah blah years too. Blah Blah witty comment about the area you live in" - high five
Her: "Blah, yakity yack hahah!"
You: "Blah Blah yakity yack, I have to leave for some damn reason. You seem cool we should hang out what's your number" - whip out pen and pad...since your asking for the time it's in-congruent to have a phone on you in that moment.

This will honestly usually get you a flaky number. I don't know how good your text game is, but you seem like the type of guy who likes to focus on one thing at a time. Just try to set up the date within 3 days of getting the number.

When I was in school the tests I was most nervous about were the ones I didn't study for. When I studied I went in and annihilated those things without fear. Next time before you head out take 30 minutes and walk yourself through that routine. Physically walk around and rehearse it for 30 minutes straight with no distractions. Set a timer if you need to.

Hope this helps you my Brown Australian Friend.

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