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PostPosted: Fri Sep 12, 2014 2:32 pm 
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So, I recently got into pickup again after 2 year.
Before I left I always nightgamed, I want to learn daygame but it just seems awkward to talk to a stranger on the street.

I found out about this method, demonic confidence by Lucas West.
It is a method that gives you 1 exercise every day in which you have to approach people on the street.
In this thread I'll keep my reports for my 21 days.
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Day one
Goal: Approach 30 women on the street asking them for the time
Amount of girls approached: 23, I reached the library at this point
Timespan: 45 minutes


I planned on walking to the library and approach every girl that walked past me.
As I have no AA I figured this would be no problem. During the entire day 1 challenge I focussed on keeping eye contact and having a sly grin on my face.

Before I left my street I had already opened 2 girls, both of them were moms and not that hot; I approached them as a warmup (If I'd be affraid to open them the rest would become even harder).

First 7 girls went fine.
from the 7th till the 12th I was like 'oh well, this is fun, everyone responds nice, smiles, is enthousiastic, not what i'd expect.

Then #13 I wanted to approach I flaked for some reason thinking to myself:"well she is busy and she is hot, why disturb her".

After I thougth that I thought to myself "you are such a retard, everyone responds nice, there si no problem at all and you are asking for the fucking time, why the hell did you flake that"

I figured I had to make up for my mistake. There was this clock at a bus stop and there was a girl leaning against it so I figured I would just ask her.
She responded with: 'I'm leaning against a clock, look up and find out yourself'
I didn't liek her response so I told her that I didnt care what she was leanign against and that I asked her, after that she smiled and said: "as you see it's 3:30" to which I just said thanks and walked away.

Then at #14 I decided to throw in a compliment while she was searchign for her phone, she turned all bright when I did that.

after #16 I was like: 'fuck this challenge, I have no AA and it's boring, I'm only going to approach HB10's.
After I thought this I realised that I was being a pussy because I didnt approach anyone anymore and that I was making up excuses all the time so I just pushed myself to start approaching (I decided I'd do 30 pushups on the street everytime I didn't approach).

That was a great idea, after that I just approached every set again reaching a total of 23 approaches.
Didn't finish the 30 because I reached the library.

edit: On my way back to home (I the normal route that took me 10 min walking instead of 50) I approached another 5 girls without hestitation, giving me 28 approaches. close enough to 30 imo

What to do better tomorrow:
Sometimes I flake out, make up excuses etc. Need to stop doing that tomorrow

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 13, 2014 9:50 am 
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Day two
Goal: Approach 30 women on the street asking them for the time while having a phone/watch in your hand
Amount of girls approached: Didn't bother counting, 25+
Timespan: 50


So when I woke up and got dressed I realised I had little to zero hair wax left, decided to go buy some and then walk to the library to study.

On my way to buy the wax I approached basicly every decent looking female, the point is to do the approaches rather than the rest. After my 4th approach I really started enjoying the reactions, few chicks looked at me confused and said: But you have a cellphone in your hand?

Basicly everytime they said that I replied with: 'oh this, the time is not working' without being stressed or nervous at all.
I figured that after the 7th set I always opened with "hey do you know the time, my phone isnt working SPAM" which I dont know is a good sign or a bad one (instantly making up excuses), but I assume it doesn't matter because the goal was not to pick them up.
around my 10th open I saw a girl (an ugly one) on a bike and the situation was ideal to ask her for the time (I made up excuses for that yesterday, even though it really wasnt the right moment), so I walked on the street and said 'hey, do you happen to know what time it is?'.
Her response: Look the other way, give me 0 attention and start biking faster

I found this rejection so amusing that I started to laugh pretty hard on the street with a few people close, they looked at me like wtf is he doing.

Next thing I figured was that I wasnt focussing on eye contact anymore so I decided that I had to focus on that again and that I wasn't allowed to say 'my phone isn't working' after the opener.
First thing worked, 2nd didnt.

Then after I reached the library a girl looked me straight in the eye and said hey (she seemed familiar but I had no clue who the fuck she was) and continued to walk the way she walked. I got myself some coffee and went outside. Saw the girl sitting outside so I just approached her and started talking to her because I wanted to know who she was and if I knew her. Apperently she figured that I didn't know her because she started giving really big hints etc. (hints that I couldn't miss). Talked to her a few min about the future and what we were going to do with our lifes etc., nothing sexual or pickupstuff. Then I figured I should get going to study and went inside.

Sticking points:
Don't instantly make up excuses. It didn't matter now but it is important when you actually pickup

Strong points:
No problem approaching at all
Even if they didnt seem receptive at all (happened like 4 times) I didn't seem to care
Enjoyed rejection

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 15, 2014 5:52 pm 
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So, should be on d4 but was really really busy yesterday, skipped one day.
After college I decided to do the d3 thing. Really did not feel like it at first but I was like: w/e, who cares, just take a little walk and talk to everyone you can.

Day 3
Goal: Approach 30 women with a phone on your hand, ask for time while pointing at your phone
Time: 30 min
Approached: Didn't count, just approached everyone on sight till I was home


First of all, I didn''t point at my phone I just threw it from my left hand to my right hand and back etc. etc., making it even more obvious that I had a phone.

My focus today was on walking in a slow pace, talking in a slow pace and keeping eye contact

I really didnt feel like doing this exercise, its not that hard or different from the rest so I thought it'd be boring.
Whatever, first set was a guy because I just wanted to approach people and didn't care about girls or guys.
Wasn't too hard, he saw my phone, looked at me and was confused. He didn't dare to ask/didn't care and told me the time.

I was really amused at his confusion so next set I made it even more obvious that I had a cellphone, this time it was a chick, pretty cute. Still no problem

All the way to my home I basicly approached every girl I saw and sometimes a few guys (still leaving a decent timespan in between my approaches. When I asked a target I made sure my next target wouldn't hear it.)

All sets went great, made up 0 excuses. I think this was because I really enjoyed the reactions and my pace gave me dominance.

So, today was an easy challenge because I enjoyed the reactions, had to warm up a little bit but in the end it was fun, looking forward to tomorrows challenge.

Sticking points:
Maybe I should try to add some small talk instead of just getting rid of the approaches

Strong points:
Did not care at all
Displayed dominance by talking/walking slow and constant eye contact
Really enjoyed the reactions

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Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 16, 2014 8:32 am 
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day 3 part 1
Goal: Ask for way to post office and keep convo running for as long as possible


So, I woke up at 8, had breakfast etc. and went out, on my way to the library again.
I figured this would be a pretty hard goal, cause IDK how to keep a convo running with a stranger, decided to do it anyway. First I walked to a shop to get hairgel, 0 sets seen (I only wanted to talk to attractive girls this time but there literaly was noone on the street, not even guys).

Then I decided to walk to library, I maybe opened 2 sets, there literally was noone walking on the streets.
first set was a female with a baby, Approached her and talked 3 lines about her baby, not that great but I did it.

next set I asked for post office and she said ye its right across the street, catching me really offguard so I instantly ended the conversation.

I shit you not, there wasn't a single set I could approach. Ofcourse I was makign up excuses but I still pushed myself to talk to the only 2 girls I could open.

I will think of a personal goal and go to the mall at a later time today (16:00 or 17:00) and do the other 28 approaches that time.

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Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit.


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