I have been gaming for a while. Been doing daygame lately and realized I really need to develop my solo game. I have been using wings too much as a crutch and not as a source of additional power. The obvious benefits of solo gaming are being able to game that random hot chick, but also its good for overcoming limiting beliefs. Basically what happens is you will pick a meetup location with a wing, hit on girls and then leave with or without a girl.

Two crutches inadvertently happen here. One is that by meeting with a wing a deadline is set. I have to show up at a certain time and leave at a certain time. This deadline causes a sense of urgency when approaching.

The second crutch with a wing is not really having to face negative self-talk that exists before and after the apporach (or blowout). is Through talking to the wing or just them being present this self talk is numbed. I remember a more experienced guy I know saying a while back that one of the main benefits of doing solo game is that you can not run for this negative self talk. Rather you have to face head on, reframe it, and ultimately overcome it.

My current goal is to approach 3 girls a day for 20 days.

Sunday 7/13/14

Went out to a Street feast by myself. Right away was nervous. I asked some girl for directions. Then I walked around the feast. I saw a bunch of sets but didn't say anything. Finally ran into an attractive girl with her mom or sister. Asked her a question. Then I continued to walk around but could not approach another girl or number close any girl.

What I learned from this day are some limiting beliefs:

- If its dark outside you can not approach girls on the street 9 pm onwards.

- I cannot number close a two set

Both these limiting beliefs are false

Monday 7/14/14


Went out day gaming to a very crowded park. I approach a fashionable girl setting on the steps of some building ask her two questions and then leave. I then head to a bench area of the park. I see girls but don't say anything. Then I head to a less crowded bench area see some more girls. Think about walking over and sitting down but don't do anything. I start to get negative. Then I decide to walk to the shopping area. Ask a girl for directions. No number close for the day.

+ Limiting beliefs discovered:
- I think the security guards at the park will out me and tell me to stop when I approach
- Girls sitting on benches online don't what to be approached
- What I am doing is a waste of time

Good for you man. I started out at solo night game because I didn't know people usually practiced PUA in groups. I was retarded, but I tell you... I've toughened up pretty hard.

Thanks. Yea depending on what city you live in there should be lairs or a lot guys looking for wings on main forums like these. The toughing up is what I am looking to do

7/15/14

Went to a bar for a drink approached one girl to ask her if she wanted to play pool she said no, but kind of gave me a winded answer. I then went to play pool. She was looking at me occasionally. I thought about going back to talk to her. But I didn't.

My limiting belief was: I thought that it would be awkward and not fluid to return to her after just asking her a question and leave.

Was driving with a friend and saw a gorgeous girl waiting for bus, thought about getting out and saying something. I could think of anything to say that quick. I should of just got out and walked up to her.

My limiting belief was: I thought that everyone on the street corner she was standing with would disapprove or give me shit.


Went to a coffee shop. While I was waiting to be served, I asked two chicks if they were in line, they said no. I didn't continue the conversaiton.

My limiting belief: probably was that people would notice me and dispprove

Reframe.

+I would have probably been less awkard to go back up and talk to her

+ Doesn't matter what others think, because I will never be able to control what they think

p.s. I fully understand that my belief system right now is irrational as fuck. I am identifying them so I can beat them out of submission.

7/16/14

Went out to the crowded park again for day game. Didn't approach any girls. I was sitting on a bench in the shade, when 3 girls sat in the bench next to me. With in 3-5 mins a family sat between unless cause I was at the end.

I didn't say anything because of thought it would be weird and too obvious of my attentions. I noticed I have an strong belief that I can never show my attentions on hitting on a girl because that is weird. I think I developed that from reading mystery's method. Also I am not that

I also have this belief that girls are very afraid of everyone in public so approaching them would just startled them.

Reframe:

I have gone direct in the past and some girls where receptive

Many girls are not afraid especially if they give me proximity and/or eye contact

Goal for 7/17/14

While at Home
Affirmation: http://youtu.be/WZmUMRAN-qc

Practice simple direct line: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ZlZryEKdXE

Practice a simple indirect line: TBA

Warm up very quickly

3 phone calls to random business
3 hi's to random strangers on the street or ask 3 different store clerks a question
3 Ask 3 girls a question
keep opening approaching girls till I ask a girl for her phone or insta date her

7/17/2014

Did the Affirmation at home for the first time, the guy says it took 2 months for it to work. was able to practice a line

I did the 3 phone call warm up. Then asked 3 random people in the street questions.

After that I ask a cute girl a question. I was kind of in a rush so I wasn't able to stay long.

Wasn't able to sit down and ask a girl for her phone number. The most important thing to rember is that I don't focus on asking a girl out right away, but rather on also doing the warm up first.

Limiting belief: if a girl see's me from a distance I can not approach her because that is creepy.

Reframe. She might actually want me to talk to her.

7/18/14

Did Affirmation at home

Made 3 phone calls, however wasn't able to day game today.

Instead went to a bar by myself. I walked around bar. Held some eye contact with a girl, then she opened me. I thought she was asking for a cigarette, but she said she wan't to touch my hair. I didn't continue since she was with a guy.

Probably should have gotten her name at least. It knew right away she wasn't with a guy, but I didn't have it in me to ruin his conversation.