Well i dont really post up here anymore but that doesnt mean im not still working on myself.

Cutting to the chase- i need some advice on how my performance was last night with this one girl.

It was tuesday night and all the college kids were heading to the unibar to get drunk. My AFC friends and i walk in and realise we know almost no one there.

After a few hours there i end up with a girl, we walk out near the street, i know i have the attraction phase down and all i need to do is get some comfort.

I tell her that im hungry and that she should fix me up with a sandwich (it worked amazingly!)
So we start heading back to her place, she makes me a toasted jam sandwich and i pull out the question game.

we end up asking some pretty personal and sexual questions but i never asked her the final question which is "would you like to kiss me?".....yeah im beating myself up for not going for it.

instead my last question was would you like to watch a movie with me?

So we cuddle up and start watching the only movie she has, "crossroads" starring brittany spears...it was terrible.

i make sure to push and pull with kino during the movie, but the only thing on my mind is the kiss...
when do i kiss her? shes not exactly making it easy for me otherwise she would lean into me or turn her head or something right?

i tried bringing my face closer to hers, i tried playing with her hair....whatever. But she didnt respond to anything. No good signs if i played with her hair, but no bad signs either.

I kiss her on he cheek (because its the only thing i had access to) and say that was your "good night kiss"
She give me a kiss on the cheek and i take the opportunity to kiss her on the cheek again. She laughs and hesitantly says "if you get too cold you can come sleep with me"

i wait 7 minutes and decide its time to make my move, i get into the hallway and realise i dont know which door is hers....shit...

if i knock on the wrong door, her house mate will come out and ruin everything.
I knock on one door and pray.....she hears the knock and comes out of the room behind me, i quickly get in before her house mate comes out.

i tell her that its too cold and we should cuddle up for survival (haha)
i get in bed and she wraps her arms around me and says "this should keep you warm"
i say "you probably shouldnt otherwise ill have to try really hard not to kiss you"
She immediatly giggles and breaks the cuddle, we lie next to eachother in bed for a while, i try holding her body in different locations but she doesnt respond, eventually i decide i might be annoying her so i get out of her bed and head back to the couch to sleep.

i did a little research afterwards and found out some pros a cons

pros:
She knows she can get comfortable with me without being pressured for sex
I didnt act needy
Next time she will probably have sex with me because she knows me more
i think i built a lot of comfort

cons:
i didnt have sex with her
she may be thinking that im lacking confidence
i didnt kiss her
i didnt reach sduction phase even though i was in a seduction location

what do you guys think? are my pros and cons correct? what would you have done?

Well after a kind of awkward conversation she thanked me for "not taking advantage of the situation like most guys" she said if i did take advantage then she would probably never speak to me again...well played Feather

just goes to show that when your PUA senses are tingling, think about why, before you move on.