| Hey guys, I'm hoping ya'll can let me know what went wrong/right in the following field report with a friend of mine and how I can improve.
First off, a little background: me and my friend, let's call her HB Happy, have known each other for a couple of years, we met in high school and now we go to different colleges. We recently met up since I'm back for summer break. When I came back, I took her to the movie theatre and paid for everything. I have no problem spending money as long as I have fun in the end and I ended up having fun. Nothing really interesting happened; we just talked about stuff, had some light Kino (nothing worthwhile), got lost together in a fire escape and went out to eat.
So we keep texting each other, I try to set a flirty vibe and what not. I role play how we're married and try to get a divorce every time she does something I don't like. I also start a game of 2 truths and a lie. She plays along and asks if I want to go with her to exchange some clothes and I decide to go.
She comes and we drive to the mall. There I'm cf and just tease her for messing up (she drops clothes on the floor as well as food), try to kino escalate (I get as far as her latching onto my arm which she breaks after a while, and although I'm not expecting much she refuses to hold my hand), and we just talk. Again, nothing worthwhile. Behind us some guy drops his drink so I get up and get some napkins for him, he tells her how she should stay with me and she says she never knew I was so nice. This leads onto a conversation about what we want from life where I tell her I'm not looking for anything serious relationship wise right now. We eventually leave, but for some reason I'm upset so I decide to see how far I can make things sexual. I tell her I'm not her human sex toy and how she's just using me for sex. She's laughing the whole time I'm doing this. As we're driving back I hint at some adventures I've had in college and over sexualize a song on the radio. She responds well. We eventually get to our destination and I hug her goodbye.
I haven't had any contact since. I don't want a relationship with this girl and I feel like I've made it clear, I just want a good time. I know this situation isn't ideal but I want to make the most of it. Honestly, I feel as if I'm outcome dependant, mostly because there isn't a surplus of girls in my hometown that I know but whatever. Let me know what went right/wrong, what I should've done differently, and what the best way to follow up is. Thank you all in advance.
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