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PostPosted: Wed Apr 02, 2014 3:00 pm 
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Hey guys, ready for a very long story:

So I'm living in, let's say UK, and I'm a Salsa dancer and instructor (and modesty aside, I'm quite good at it), and I've met this really hot Spanish girl about 10 months ago in the Salsa scene. Always thought she's hot, we had some quick chats but nothing else... never showed much interest with her (was kind of investing in other girls).
Since early this year, she started to give more attention to me, and I started being more attracted to her.
We started chatting a lot on Viber and Facebook, and whenever she came to parties where I live (she lives 100km away from me) she was always asking to dance with me (not sure if because I'm a good dancer or because of something else). That night she offered me a lift, and when she dropped me home, she leaned to the opposite side and waived goodbye (lol)... Well, I took it as a sign and didn't gave her more attention, but she continued chatting and being very friendly.

Thing is, one day I told her I would give her free Salsa classes, and she came on purpose to my house for me to teach her and I even cooked for her. And I gave her the class, we had dinner and spoke a lot... There was amazing chemistry. I tried to kiss her, and she said "We can't".
She told me she has a boyfriend in Spain and in 3 months she's moving back to Spain.

I started to think a lot about this girl... really a lot. Since my ex-wife I never thought so much about some other girl... I might be in love. :/
We met again in another night in the Salsa scene (she started to come more often to my town), and once again she was all over me, and offered me a lift again... And again the same cold farewell. Then when she knew I had plans for a party on the next Saturday that didn't matched hers, she changed her plans and went to the same party as me.
In that party, I tried to kiss her again, but in a more "sneaky" way... She started to hit me in my shoulder, smiling and saying "Don't do that".

After that night (I think this is where I f&ck£d it up), I told her by message I liked her and I had to stay away. She told me she understands... One hour later she texted me back saying her boyfriend just broke up with her, I thought "game on", but I guess it was just a coincidence. Apparently she and her boyfriend were only dating for 3 months and at a distance!?!?!? (I don't even consider that a relationship, but anyway)

So we met a couple more times and again she kept texting me and insisting to dance with me, and saying how much she misses me... Two weeks ago, I gamed her trying to convince her to kiss me. Well, it didn't worked. I've decided to ignore her and she notice I was being cold in the texts and now she's also ignoring me. I still dance with her, whenever I want, and we keep having that chemistry, but the chats have stopped.

My friends say that maybe she likes me but because she's leaving she doesn't want to get attached.
By the way, I'm also moving to a bigger city where I will have more "women" as options, and it will be easier to forget her.

So guys, what do you think? What have I done wrong, what would you do different? What would you do in the few time I have left?


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 03, 2014 3:11 am 
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OK you need to spend more time with this woman outside of dance class and clubs.

Ask her on a DATE. She likes you, but does not want to be your booty call. Show her that like her, and want to be with her for more than one night.

I can't remember, but if she's Hispanic/Spaniard, those women are very religious, and don't just go out for sex like a lot women do. They hold their morals / values strongly. Well, most of them do.

But yea, ask her on a date man. Don't just keep trying to force a kiss on her. Take it nice and kind of slow. I say kind of slow because you will know if you need to move faster.

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OK you need to spend more time with this woman outside of dance class and clubs.

Ask her on a DATE. She likes you, but does not want to be your booty call. Show her that like her, and want to be with her for more than one night.

I can't remember, but if she's Hispanic/Spaniard, those women are very religious, and don't just go out for sex like a lot women do. They hold their morals / values strongly. Well, most of them do.

But yea, ask her on a date man. Don't just keep trying to force a kiss on her. Take it nice and kind of slow. I say kind of slow because you will know if you need to move faster.
Honestly, I think it's too late for a Date. First, because I'm already moving on (already in the process of forgetting her), second, I'm actually moving to another city in one week, I'll probably see her only once more. Currently we're apart by 60 miles, in two weeks we'll be apart by 123 miles.

But, what you said it's really helpful... One of my biggest problems was understanding if a girl was interested in me or in my dancing... I usually just did my "gaming" on the dance floor, or after the parties... With some girls it worked, with others not so.
Asking for a date, might be the "fastest" solution to get to a closure (either being a successful one, or letting her go and move to another). Thanks! :)


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You're welcome man. You have a huge advantage over other men, you know how to salsa and you know it great.

Most men are afraid of dancing, but it's something women love to do, and they do it all the time.

Good luck with your next adventure, and if you're ever in need for advice, post it up and someone with knowledge will help ya out.

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