Hey guys,
So it's been a long weekend for me. I've been out on the past Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights.
At the moment I am getting back into routine since my last relationship came to an end. And have mostly been out for social fun rather than game. However, I have been watching a lot of Adam Lyons and Richard La Ruina videos to get me back on track with my game.
One approach method I have been particularly interested in is the non-verbal approach which Richard La Ruina talks about quite a bit. It's quite a stealthy tactic to operate and I have been preparing myself to use it in field as much as possible.
Before all this I have been working on myself, to get my appearance looking top and my body language right for me so I at least look attractive and inviting to my targets.
So.
I was out on Saturday night and to be honest I had gotten myself fairly drowned in alcohol on the Friday night after having met up with my cousin who I had not seen for years. So Saturday I felt quite tired and fairly unmotivated for approach. Yet I thought I'd still be up for trying if an easy chance came my way.
And It did. I was in a club in my hometown known as Linx. It was packed to the walls and it was more of a sausage-fest if anything. Yet I managed to find myself a target. A short HB6.5.
My friend tried to chat her up early on but she told him she was a lesbian and he left it at that. However, I managed to catch a few seconds worth of eye contact from her shortly after. I was prepared, Dancing, enjoying myself, standing feet apart, strong figure with a smile on my face; I used a non-verbal tactic. I smiled and blew her a cheeky, laughable kiss through the air, which no one else saw. From then after she would not stop staring at me, trying her best to look seductive whilst she danced with her friend.
I'll say it now, I made no close, I just wanted to see how far this approach could get me before I had any verbal communication (hence the lazy approach).
This eye contact and smiling and winking went on for about half an hour, which was way too long in my books. But please, I was feeling unmotivated. Still. I used a girlfriend of mine as a way of signalling pre-selection and by this I mean, as I was staring back at the HB6.5 I got my girlfriend to dance and grind with me every so often but rarely looking away from the HB6.5.
I realised this approach had worked after she found a way to get close to me and brag to her friend about me. She pointed straight at me and as I turned to look she grabbed her friends face to prevent her from looking back at me and making it awkward on her. I moved about in the club and realised she was looking for me. She kept looking and moving back to where I originally saw her and she seemed lost. Not long after at about 2am, I crashed and headed home with my friends (I had work at 7am Sunday). But this small feat has really inspired me to use non-verbal a lot more as no one but me knew about it and from a lazy and unmotivated point of view, it seemed to work perfectly. Next time there WILL be a close here somewhere!
Anyone else been using stealthy tactics like this? Let me know!
Have fun out there guys!
Benji89
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