I find that my new skills are working but the problem is that i end up subconsciously using them more on girls im not that interested in. I know the reason for this is that i am in no way intimidated by them. This has me coming out of the gate more confident and attractive. I dont want to use girls im not into as practice. So i have most definitly made a resolution to be acutly aware of this. That being said it has given me insight on what i should do with 9's and 10's. What i believe all women want is simply a man who feels comfortable hitting on them. If it feels natural they will love it.
There is this girl at my job who is a little thick for my taste and thus why i label her an HB6. She has great tits a pretty face and a fun personality, but I've been working out and look the best ive ever looked and feel i deserve someone who can do the same. At the end of this report i will ask for some advice, but here is what went down that, other than the quality of girl(no offense cause she is cool) played out beautifully.
I started working there a week ago and i started kino immediately. I did this with her without thinking but i am now going to use this as my kino opening from now on. I started just playfully punching her in the shoulder, smiling and making jokes. Simple shit like if she was carrying a bustub of dishes i'd criticize her for making too much noise. She responded and we had a banter that would happen. This is the first time i felt how and when the attraction tease thing happening for i am now aware of it. The punching bit works cause it is old school and creates instant comfort and puts physical contact into the mix early. I knew she was interested for sure when she asked how old i was. With girls in the past ive found this to be true. When a girl wants to know your age she is sizing you up because she is thinking of you as a possibility. I doubt a girl would care otherwise. a few days later she came in with a guy right as i got off work. some other co workers were hanging out as well. I was wearing a leather jacket. She then shot me a test by saying "nice jacket, do you ride a motorcycle?" I said "No". She said i was kind of a poser. I quickly looked at what she was wearing. It was a red and black checkered flannel(with a low cut tee underneath showing off her bad ass tits). I responded by saying, "do you chop down trees?" This made several of her friends laugh and i saw the look in her eyes change. It was on. After this we went to another bar. There we continued our banter. I was absurdly nice to the guy she brought and she paid him less and less attention as the night went on. This is another realization about myself. I actually like a little competition in the mix. I used to hate it . Once the banter was in place we started talking about real shit for a few minutes, like music and interests. I talked about my new record with confidence and energy but not like a dick. I believe in it and she could tell. We then separated for about ten or fifteen minutes. I was walking to the bathroom when we crossed paths. With out thinking i lightly grabbed her arm and pulled her toward me and kissed her. I dont even know why!! I then said, "that is all we are doing" and walked to the bathroom. When i came back she was leaning into me the whole time. At that point i knew i had her. She invited me back to her house wiith the rest of the group but i declined and had a few more beers with another friend of mine that arrived. Minus 20 pounds it was a great sarge.
So the moral of this story is: Think about how you would conduct yourself and feel around a girl you are comfortable with and do the same with a girl that you would normally find intimidating. That is what im gonna do from now on. The love you know you deserve is the love you can have. A woman wants a man who is a level up. The guy that came with her looked up while i was looking down. That is why i won.
Now for the advice part. I dont want to take it any further. Fooling around with co workers is a messy business, especially when im not super into her. Im hoping i we can just chalk it up to a funny thing that happened at a bar one night. I only kissed her once. Should i just not even bring it up and be cool at work and just be sure not to escalate any further, or should there be a conversation?

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