I'm kind of just making this post because last night I got my confidence back and I want to make a note of posterity should I need to rekindle that feeling. I went through a break up start of October, and for the last month and a half I have been keyboard jockeying on these forums instead of going out and meeting women because I just didn't feel ready. But last night I made an impromptu, last minute decision to go out, because the unplanned nights where you're not really sure if you want to go, are very often the best.

I hit my local city with a good friend who I recently discovered knows about game. At first the night was a failure, we were in the line for a club and we making conversation and photo bombing groups of girls who were taking selfies, and we were taking pictures for groups of girls etc just to get the momentum going. Then we don't get into the club because we don't have student cards... Instantly we looked like chumps. But we picked ourselves up and went to another club, it was closed. We were about to go home when we decided to hit one more spot, and bingo. At first I felt all rusty and self conscious and stood on the dancefloor like a mug, but then went for a cigarette and got myself into state.

Immediately got back to the dancefloor and started just dancing and having fun, being self amused. Danced with a couple of girls and then I noticed an HB 8. We made eye contact and I beckoned her over, we danced and made out, and then I decided to bounce to the smoking area to build comfort.

I was so in the zone, it was all natural to me and within myself, I wasn't thinking about gaming her, it was happening, it was who I was. I had forgotten this feeling in my recent months of misery and I felt so fucking awesome!

My wing was with her friend and we both hugely DHV'd each other, and they were absolutely hooked. I was even cutting off her conversation and getting her to kiss me and I sailed through every shit test there was, it was a perfect pick up apart from no SNL. I'm seeing her on sunday to cook dinner at my place after I've been out saturday with another girl.

So yeah... Not really expecting a reply. Just that it feels good and like i am 99% over my ex who was previously ruining all my previous attempts to game girls as she was in my head. It was a reminder of how far I have come from the shy virgin of 5 years ago and what I am capable of. I was the don that night.

Nicely done man! Great to hear you're almost over your ex. Always nice to hear success stories.

_________________
Chris
Dating Strategist
https://structureofdating.com/

Good stuff mate. When it all clicks finally and the stars align, it is a truly amazing feeling. Makes you feel completely like a man

_________________
Mastery in the art of natural seduction
https://twitter.com/El_Mago_PUA

Well done You are right, there is nothing like the feeling you get when you've been out of the game for a bit and you come back and feel the rush from chatting up a girl and how much FUN it is. Also when you remember that you have skills and that girls are available and down to play. Have fun brother.

Good post. I'm in a similar place, ended a relationship that was an enormous strain early October. Have been dabbling with game but haven't had that big night to put me back where I was yet. I can feel its close though, and it's totally internal, I'm just not ready to make an effort.