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PostPosted: Tue Nov 05, 2013 6:31 am 
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So I feel I really have to keep a blog up on my progress.. Because ever since I joined this forum.. Its just insane how much I have already progressed and how much this stuff works!

When I got here I would make out maybe 3 times a year. I am 23 now and only kissed the first time at the age of 20. And I would hardly talk to strange girls. But now since I am already like 2 months in.. I open up more girls in one night then I would do in 2 months before. And then I'm only just talking about max 5 sets!

The first thing I learned her was to change your looks.. I bought a book from Warped Mindless here and he explains things so well on what to change on your looks. Its really scary HOW MUCH you can change the way you look. I first gave away almost ALL my clothes! And I am serious.. I had V neck shirts but he learned me that you can have V neck shirts that fit you perfectly or the ones that make you look stupid. And I always looked stupid.

I bought for like 300 euro new clothes. ( go shopping with a girl friend or a gay friend..) that was in the summer. And now for the winter I also spend another 250 on new clothes. ( but we have a Primark that is just so freakingly cheap.. ).

Got lenses in, new haircut. And accessorize like wooden braclets and neckless they do big wonders..

And now when I went out of the door my confidince level was already ALOT bigger.
But I would steel feel intimidated by hot girls. Wich was also a reason why I would never dare to enter a clothing store alone when their is a hot young girl working.. Check if it was an older lady and then I went..

Or if I seen a hot girl walking by I would always look away.. But its stupid. Should make HER look away!

After this was done I started really easy. The goal was to open up some random small talk conversations or just speak out random comments that you have in your mind but would never speak out normally.

Example: Standing in line at the store and seeing this cute hot girl in front of me with just HUGE heels! I had the comment in my head of ''That is not just something..' She looked and was like ''what?''. Yea your heels.. Their HUGE! Isn't that pain full?. And their I had it. A small conversation after a random comment with a cute girl. And I diddn't even bother trying to #close. But it felt soo good..

And then try saying some more stuff to girls that are working at a grocery store when you check out. They have nameplates and I always wanted to say ''Hi x, how are you doing?''. But I never did it.. Untill last week then finally:D. And stuff like this.. If you want to do daygame on a certain day. Do stuff like this before you go on the streets, because you will really get in a good flow.

But for the most part I was just sitting at home spitting out youtube almost the entire day.. And funny thing is that I have big phases.. I started with just searching for ''PUA infields''. Cozz I was worrying so much on WHAT the hell do you say to a girl to open her on the street and what the hell you say right after that?!.

Well found Daygame.com with Tom Torero and Yad and after seeing almost all those videos and having bought the daygame blueprint.. I found someone on the internet who did daygame for already 2 years he said.
We met in a city and for the first 2 hours I did not dare to approach a single girl.. Then we went to grocery store and I talked some random shizzle with the girl working their and after that I finally dared to approach the first girl. But first he went. And It was so funny... Because he was just BAD. He would stand in front of the girls and open them with ''Hey you girls look really sexy today'' and then he would wave ( yes waving ). I thought I would do alot better.. So I went and she did not stopped and just walked bye. Then I went again with a girl passing me for the 2nd time already that day. I runned after her did the Yad stop perfectly and I opend her DIRECT. Wich felt sooo good. Because really.. Their hardly are guys who open someone on the street in the middle of the day on a normal direct way. I only run out things to say really fast.. And I blew it. But later on I saw her again and I thought fuck it. I went in again and said ''Hey you that wasn't really fair.. You made me really nervous and I did not knew what to say anymore!''. Closed her then and we had a long time text contact.
Man oh man I felt soooooooooo goood! :D

I only have not done this again since then.

Now my nightgame just sucked ass and I thought I would just not bother even trying to fix it because it was hopeless.. But still I was just hooked on my macbook looking up almost everything about pua nightgame.. From Gambler to Adam Lyons to Mystery Method, Skills, and watching almost all episodes of keys to the vip over and over again. But will tell about this later :)


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 14, 2013 3:36 pm 
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Sunday 10 November' 13

Their was a big feast in town. I went out alone early and I noticed myself just walking in circles over and over again. Looking at sets and having the assumption in my head that none of those sets would like me so did not approach anything.. Almost walked back crying.. I then tried to pump myself up by watching some rsd tyler hot seat and putting on good music and telling myself I'm awesome and its a priveledge to talk to me. ( does work a bit! ).

Went back out. And this time I did open one 2 set I saw. I did it indirect with
''Hey excuse me, do you know where I can drinking coins with this money?'' And after that. I just asked their names and started talking to them. They would go in a big attrection on the carnival and I promised them a drink if they did not puke. In the end after they get to drink and told me they had to pee. They dumped me! Now that is really harsh but I went home with just a postive vibe that I did open one 2 set I saw and that your assumptions can be so wrong.

Monday 11 November '13

2nd day of this feast I went with a friend. I took 2 beers and when we got in a club I first just started giving high fives to older ladies, asking for their hand and spinning them around and I quickly got in 'state'.
And after that things went nuts! I just opened one set after another one. I watched some rsd that night so I wanted to try that.

So when a girl was walking towards me I would go ''YOU! STOP! JUST STOP FOR A MINUTE!''
Trying those kind of openers or ''YOU! Who are you!?

That works so much better then going into a 3 set and asking them ''Hey you girls who are you?''

I kinda got over my problem with my assumptions before approaching a set. That all the sets would just hate me and be really mean. So when I saw 2 girls sitting on a bench I just walked up their and said ''Hey this looks nice here,let me sit here inbetween you.''

Another 3 set I opened with ''Heeey! Seems like the afterparty is over here!''.

So this night was so much better when it came to opening! And you have to start seeing in a way that its fun! You never know how a set is going to respond and thats the fun part! If you see it like that, things get alot easier!
Felt I made a HUGE step over here. But I did needed a friend and a few beers wich was the downside.

My friend thought I was crazy for just started talking to anyone wich felt kinda good :)


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PostPosted: Thu Nov 14, 2013 3:42 pm 
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Here is something funny I found. a few weeks ago I went out in this jacket:
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Now since I joined here, Warpedmindless thought me a bit on how to change your looks with your clothes.
So now I went out like this:

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