i'm just approaching my mid-twenties and still very new to the concept of pua, but i think i'll be able to have a gist of it after doing more research into. so bare w me if i come off as very newb and using the wrong lingo. a little about myself: i don't think im unattractive, in fact i've been approached by women half the time. but because i'm shy, my social anxiety acts up. sometimes im unable to sustain their interest for a very long time. and i think that's my main fallacy. i'm pretty sure the general consensus is that women love to be dominated, regardless of what they say about liking nice guys, etc. white knights get no where in life and i'm sick of being one. i'd often be complimented as "cute" and even had girls who wanted to cuddle with me, but never wanted to go any further than that. i've been doing it all wrong by using substances and alcohol to overcome my anxiety. i will be providing excerpts from my past experience, any input is much appreciated!!

here's an example about 5 or 6 years ago, when i got my first kiss.
i was actually at a night club with my roommate, and had my first legal drink (or two). these two hot blondes approached me while i was sitting by a booth. offered me a couple shots. and i could hear one of them telling the other that i was very cute and escalated to a make-out session, where one of them would be taking a picture and the other shoving her tongue down my throat. yes, you got that right...my first kiss was at a night club with two hot blondes. but don't be too happy for me yet. after a steamy make-out with the 1st girl, the 2nd girl decided it was her turn. as you know by now, i still didn't know how to kiss properly. and was giving the 2nd girl a very sloppy frenchie and got saliva all over her lips and mouth. the 2nd girl promptly pushed me away within a few seconds and took her friend away. i couldn't find them for rest of the night.

ok, now lets move on to a couple years ago, again at a night club. (by now, i'm quite experienced with kissing)
i was at a party booth that my friends had booked at the club. a lot of the women there were friends of friends', so i didn't know them personally. after dancing my ass off for a while (i was rolling hard) i needed a break and sat down on the couches next to a fine korean girl. i noticed she was smoking and i wanted a cig myself, so opened with "damn, i love a girl who smokes". she looks at me and smiles, and without hesitation offers me one as she put out the one she was almost done with. as i light up, she quickly comes onto me and gets all touchy. so i went in for a mouth-to-mouth shotgun. she was loving it. it quickly escalated to a steamy make-out sesh. by then, she was reaching inside my shirt, and feeling my inner thighs. now the right thing to do at the time would be seclude her from the crowd, take her some where quiet. however, i was too slow to react and this crazy make-out sesh lasted for a few more minutes than it was needed. but then the thought finally came to me and i asked her if she wanted a drink. and ofcourse, she said yes, so i decided to take her upstairs, bc it was much quieter and private, and it was where the 2nd bar was at. it got even more hot and heavy once we were upstairs, she was reaching down into my jeans. but before i knew it, her twin sister showed up out of nowhere and grabbed her by the hands and took off. again...i couldn't find them for the rest of the night.
story of my life, eh?

more anecdotes coming soon...