My best friend has been fawning over this woman for over a year now today, practically since he first met her. The problem though is that he's very afc and falls in love with the women he's attracted to. He's had prior situations such as these and went into depression mode when he divulged his affection and the emotions weren't reciprocated. Suffice to say, this was one of those time. She's married though, so I thought this would be good for him, the foreknowledge that nothing could come out of this arrangement would have been his safety cushion but I guess I was wrong. During various points of the time period he's known her, she's given him hints that she wanted a lay but because of his shyness and the pedestal he put her on, he never took advantage.

Fast forward to a month ago, he moves into a new place and she comes to hang out with him in her spare time. They smash for a while but he gets caught up in his emotions and eventually divulges his affection. It's not reciprocal but she values the friendship and stops fucking him, but she still chills. Whatever, here's where I come into the picture. I also chill at his place often so quickly our paths met. This event happened roughly a week ago; one day when she got off work, she comes over around 10 pm or so. My friend isn't that cool with what's happening, he assumes she's there for a menage which makes sense because they had this discussion before, turns out this chick is very open-minded sexually which is a long story I don't have time to get into lol. He's flustered the entire time she's there, compounded by the fact that we're watching a Kevin Hart dvd she brought over(the woman and I like K-Hart, the friend not so much). He shows disinterest the entire time and places much of his focus on his phone. Unexpectedly, I find the chick pretty cool and we hit it off, well as much as you can hit it off with your friend that's in love with her sitting right next to you steaming. The film ends and I use the restroom, while I'm gone he tells her to leave, I come back as she is heading out. This is around 2 am.

About 15-20 minutes after she bounces, I fb her saying that she's cool in my book and I harbor no ill feelings to what happened, no response of course. Well, sometime the next afternoon she comes back, we chill for a bit and watch another Kevin Hart stand up special. The friend goes back to his room while its' on, yeah it was kinda weird with him sulking but hey, I like Kevin Hart so...at some point she goes to his room and I'm thinking they're getting down to business so I put on music so I don't listen to what's happening. Not to much time later she leaves, apparently she says that she won't come back anymore because of the complicated situation. He's sad but wants to be alone so I bounce as well. Not to long after that she starts fbn me, it's very nonchalant at first, talking about comedy and the friend but then sexual undertones are presented and we're talking about the moral implication of this action. We've been talking for a few days now with the pinnacle of our conversation in the context of this report being that we're going to hookup on Tuesday at her place, hell she even proposed hooking up at the friend's place when he's at work at one point.

What do I do?


I know this is a field report and you guys probably want specific examples of what I said and whatnot, but just like my last field report, this chick is pretty much guaranteed and was into me from the getgo. The difference is that unlike my last field report, I'm not gonna fuck this one up and not make a move, the plan is already to smash. It was just natural conversation and attraction, I don't think I did or said anything any other guy couldn't have done plus when the chick's already game, the overall journey is a hell of a lot easier.

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