Still raging about not being able to change my text colour but I digress.

So lately I have been devouring RSD stuff (podcasts, youtube videos blog entries etc). I've been adding to it to my everyday life just little things here and there (e.g. maintain steady, strong eye contact, break rapport voice and talk about shit you want to talk about). The conclusion of which is two fold
1. This shit takes time to get good. We're talking years here. It is a commitment. You can learn tricks and tips but to get to the top you're going to have to put in time. So no rush, open when you can during the day. Just push yourself into that arena and steer the conversation/interaction to a place. Don't flounder. When you go out at night it's ok if you call it an early night but don't go home having not tried anything. You never know what will happen. If anything open a set and try that thing you wanted to try.
2. You deserve the hotties. Go for them off the bat. Say any shit you want but be congruent.

With this in mind I went out tonight with my wing and we live in a fairly small town so there isn't the massive abundance that the cities have. Just went out, shot some pool (and some shit) and got to the club and it was pretty dead. We were only out for a while as we both have work so we gave a time limit to ourselves of midnight. Anyway, standing at the bar a song comes on and I notice out the corner of my eye a two set standing just off from their group near me.
I said in their direction to no-one in particular 'Is this Knife Party?'. *Turn to face 2 set* *ooooooo blonde HB 7/8 has got unique style I'll see where this goes. We talk and I maintained steady, strong eye contact, break rapport voice and talk about shit I wanted to talk about. Cut scene we're outside we're kind of alone and I notice she glances at my lips. I put my arm around her waist and pull her in and kiss.

Easy as that. Bit more shit chat, bit more kissing and # close for day 2.

So why am I telling you this? I wouldn't have known to open the easy set and that the kiss was on if I hadn't have gone out so much and picked up on the queues. Granted I still have a long way to go before I'm banging 10's but it'll come. No pressure. The important thing is you get out there and do something. Try things!

- Jack

Well played, sir!

And it looks like you have the best mentality of how to learn; by getting out there and gaining experience. Nice read of the IOIs too.

I really dig the RSD material, stops girls being put on a pedestal and allows you to have more fun rather than being stuck in your head.

Keep it up and good luck!
Dbo

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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Thank you for the boost.

Yeah I was happy with the IOI read too. If anything I thought, eh fuck it why not.

- Rob