Ok guys heres the sitch.

*Met this girl few months ago at a club
*got her contact
*met up within few weeks. 1st date simple dinner, 2nd date hooked up(foreplay shit) around 4th date fucked
*we chat almost everyday at work (we dont work together obviously over gchat)
*its been 6 months since that initial club night

Ok so for my bday she took me out to dinner went back to her place and I did not make a move due to nervousness. I know its weird because Ive already hooked up/fucked but she still gives me the nerves.

Then I motion to leave because it was a weekday and we have to wake up early. (didnt want that awkward...so...I kinda wanted to go to bed can you leave? convo to come up).
She gets mad and throws a tantrum that I did not make a move (in a cute pouty way though).

next day she chats me apologizing for the way that she acted. she said she felt rejected and that she wanted a hug and a kiss. Then I explained myself that I just wanted to play my cards right (even though I know making moves fast is what lead to success in the first place). Then she goes I'm not ready for anything serious or complicated because shes been hurt alot before. I'm down to maybe settle down with this girl and make it serious.

So Its been a few days since then we still talk but its been less frequent. She did tell me she will be busy with work these few days so i do give her the benefit of the doubt. Its just I invited her out to the fair this saturday and she gave me a k we'll see type response. Which I take as yeah I'll go with you if I have nothing else going on.

So I know the typical response to this is go find ten other women type thing but I was thinking about going to her apt and waiting there to suprise her. Just give her the hug and kiss she wanted and bounce without saying much.

Is that weird or no? I feel its totally situational and that if a girl likes a guy she would thing thats sweet and if she didnt its creepy.

My logic is that if she likes me enough she will enjoy it and if she doesn't then I'm not really losing anything anyways.

What are your guys thoughts? go or no?

Thanks in advance.

Bring duct tape, she may bite and scratch. Wear a ski mask to make it seem less creepy.



Seriously bad idea.

Go back to being the man she was attracted to in the 1st place.

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Thanks guys,

just as an update.

I ended up getting flowers and just leaving it at her door with a note.
The key here is I got her Iris's (blue is her fav color) instead of roses.
I think Roses are out played and over-bearing at times.
The note wasn't some love letter but just said I hope you feel better cuz she was stressed out over work.
I also didn't sign the note, thinking "you better know its me" and there better not be any possibility that it was some other dude.

She ended up thanking me for the flowers asking me to the LA fair when she received them.
I went to the LA fair with her and had a great time. We also went to dinner the night after.
Couldn't fuck either days because the fair day she planned a dinner with a freaking friend after (this was gay), and the dinner night she had to pack for the trip she was about to go on for work (see below).
Although we kiss frequently now when greeting and parting. I think I'm over that anxiety part.
Next time I see her I'll escalate way more.

Shes off to a work conference this week to a resort so I haven't gotten in contact with her.
What are your guys feelings on this? when a girl goes away somewhere but its not international or anything so you can still theoretically call/text.

I see two scenarios when bitches go on trips(although this is a work trip for her in this specific case)

1. They have fun: they are away from their usual daily grind. They are on this trip to forget about the usual and unless you are a bf, you don't have the right to stop her from having fun. she does not want to be reminded of the daily which you somewhat represent. so I let them do their thing so I don't annoy them.

2. They are bored: They start missing what was good about their life back home. Which if you have been doing a good job, should include you. Then now they start thinking why hasn't he called etc. and they start loving you more. I guess if the trip is long, a well placed call could make them really happy. In this case my girl is only away for 4 days so I'm freezing her out.

Lemme know how you guys feel about this theory.