I got back from a two hour date thirty minutes ago
Half the date was spent making out
This is basically the closest to an instant date I did online. I got the chick's number yesterday off OkCupid. Texted her today, and within 5 texts we had a plan to meet at a local pub tonight
She is there a few minutes early. She texts me saying she is there and if she can get me a beer. I tell her yes, and then walk in (I was walking, waiting to be 5 minutes late.. it helps being a little late
)
I walk in, and do all the usual stuff, say hi, hug, kiss cheek. I grab my beer, and we go sit on a couch in the pub
Basically we know nothing about each other, so she starts with the usual "tell me about yourself" and I tease her saying that sounds like an interview, and instead she gets to ask me 3 questions, as long as I get the same. I remembered this 3 questions game worked well on a date last year, so I decided to retry it. It worked well, it puts her in a position where she has to be creative and interesting, instead of getting away with "tell me about yourself" and letting the whole pressure be on you
I gave her lots of kino and a little eyefucking. Eyefuck forever. Left eye. Lips. Right eye.
After our drinks we eject the bar. She smokes a cigarette. Then I take her for a walk. We end up in a park. Dark and deserted. We sit on the bench. I have my arm behind her, touching her shoulder. Our legs touch. We do small talk.
She has already said she likes my hair. And now she is touching hers. Usually when they touch their hair it's kiss time.
So she teases me about something. I say I will bite her nose. She says not to do it because it's cute and small and classy. I say "let me look at it" and she does. Has her eyes closed. Perfect moment. I kiss her.
From that point on it escalates, and we make out for the next hour. I escalate. Withdraw. Escalate again. I get to the point where I am playing with her nipple, and kissing behind her neck. She stops me when I try to pull her tit out of the bra (in a public park
) and suck on it. I tease her that if we get arrested we'll post bail, and do not make a big deal out of she stopping me.
Then it gets late, so I walk her to her car, and we kiss goodbye. I tell her I would make her dinner and let her sleep on the couch, but it's going to be a long drive in the morning to her job, so she better not. I think she pondered the idea for a second, but didn't take my offer. No biggie, I didn't think she would. I just wanted to plant the idea of my house for next time.
She texted me when she got home and I told her it's all good and we should make plans soon.
And make plans we will. The chick is like 33 and divorced
My first divorced chick
This was a good date. I basically walked in knowing nothing about this girl, and an hour later my tongue was in her mouth. Hard to beat that.
CHAT