FR+ - Saturday night 13/9 -13 (number-close, kiss-close)
Like I say in the introduction, I'm new to the game. I've got some things clear and some not so clear. Last night I decided to casually go into town with a (female) friend of mine just to have a beer. Incidentally, after a beer or two, I saw the opportunity of trying out some of the stuff I've been reading. Not sarging! Just random techniques to touch and feel.
There was a kind of rock event going on in town so I hade decided to peacock myself up a bit with eyeliner and my friend asked if she could paint my fingernails black and I said yes. I actually looked kinda cool.
We went to a local pub and sat down at a table and begun discussion social dynamics between girls and guys and I became more and more interested in trying something out. Two guys took a seat on a table next to us. As I passed them to get another beer I knocked one of them on the shoulder and told them "Keep an eye on my stuff, will you?" and pointed to where I had been sitting. They went "oh no problem!". This was my first-in-life attempt at consciously being alpha. Might sound lame as fuck but I got a little excited.
Soon another guy and a ~6 HB joined their table and I immediately began socializing with them, ignoring the girl and befriending the guys. I even managed to pull a small neg on her, I believe. I could feel her trying to get eye contact with me but I kept talking with the guys. Eventually they joined me and my friend at our table.
I tried a few negs (remember, I've never negged a girl before in my life). The girl said I should get longer hair. I said "Yeah, it'd suit me. Hey, you should get longer hair too." Just cheap stuff like that.
Tried being indirect with her. She asked me what I do for a living and I said something along the lines of "All sorts of stuff bla bla" and when one of the guys asked me the same questions I tried to be a little bit alpha by saying "I've got a thousand things going on all the time bla bla.. so what about you?" trying to make my life sound extraordinary, dwarfing his response when asked the same question. Maybe uncool of me. I dunno.
The HB were seated three chairs away from me making it impossible for me to make contact with her. Eventually, the guy blocking the path between me and her left for the bathroom - I immediately stole his seat and began talking to everyone about how I've been reading up on how to read palms.
I asked the girl if I could read her palms and asked for her hand. She said "no!" and when I insisted (trust me, I wasn't pushy at all about it, just friendly) she said "you have to respect when someone says no!". Funny reaction. So I just shrugged and begain reading the palm of a guy and I could sense everyone was a little bit impressed even though I suck at it.
Suddenly the girl rose and took a seat between one of the other guys in the set to get away from me. It became clear that the guy she sat down next to was her boyfriend. So that's why she had reacted like that when I asked to read her palms. Her boyfriend was probably a real jealous douchebag and he kept glaring at me while I kept the conversation going with the rest of the group. I guess she got nervous because of
him, not me.
The girl kept looking in my direction and smiling at me. I kept pulling jokes and winking at her. Eventually, me and my friend got bored and left. I had no real interest in the girl, I just wanted to flex some of the stuff I've learned.
Number-close/kiss-close
Alright.. We moved on to a pub, had another beer, and ended up in this nightspot with a dance floor and loud music. I hate those places. It's impossible to communicate and I simply hate dancing. So I just hung around at the bar and waited for my friend to shake her booty for a while.
Suddenly this chubby 6.5 HB (blonde) came up next to me to order a drink. She was kinda cute. I ignored her for a few minutes and then went in and asked what she thinks about my black painted nails (yeah, Mystery did that in
The Game...) and then my eyeliner. Then we just chatted a bit (I can't really remember about what). I was actually more interested in her thin 7 HB friend and my plan was to keep talking to the chubby blonde to get to her.
Then they disappeared into the dance floor and I remained at the bar. I was a little let down but it was no biggie. When my friend showed up and we made ourselves ready to leave, the chubby blonde came up to me and asked me if she could have my number. So I wrote my number on her arm and then when we hugged good bye I kissed her and we began making out and my friend stared open-mouthed and her friend stared open-mouthed and then we stopped kissing and I said "see ya" and then we left.
She texted me this morning. Dunno if this qualifies as a genuine number-close but, hey, now I've got her number.
Fist-fight woo hoo & other stuff
When we we're walking home some guys tried to steal my bike and I got angry. Two neanderthaal-type guys I had been befriending backed me up and then they all started to fist-fight and I had to break it up. One got a bloody lip. All this drama over a fucking bike, man.
I've realized that besides working on my inner game, confidence, body language, routines etc I really need to make a few lifestyle changes. I need to stop masturbating regularily. I need to stop drinking. I gotta start working out. I was only out to get one drink yesterday and ended up drunk (fucking up my judgement), quite a bit poorer and with a hangover. I'm not a drunkard or anything but I've been feeling bad about my drinking habits for a long time now so I guess sarging might be a good reason to stop drinking.
That's it. I'll update if anything goes down with the chubby chick.
CHAT