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PostPosted: Sat Aug 17, 2013 7:11 pm 
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Hello this is my first field report and i would really like some input and some thoughts.

So yesterday i was at an outside party with my college where you welcome all the new students (around 800 people).
I quickly meet up with two girls with one of my lads and start talking to them. I start out with the opener "jealous girl friend opener" where my attention is mainly on my target. She seems kind of intrested at this point but keeps looking at her phone. I somehow manages to isolate her by completely ignoring her friend since my friend is gone. We are now on our own and sits down on a hill. I run some DHV routines (the cube) and mix it up with some kino. Even though she seems more interested than before, her body language is still pretty closed. We small talk a bit more, as i think it is about time to go in for the kiss. I use the 5 question game with a kiss for the kiss for the winner:
Me: okay how about a little game
her: okay what is it about?
Me: depends on how intimate it is allowed to be?
Her: Not to intimate
Me: Okay lets say the bets are a kiss on the cheek then?
Her: Okay
here we play the game and i win, we then french kiss even though she seems really awkward about it.
After the kiss, i really did not know what to do since she her body language was still pretty closed..
We kiss and small talk a bit more, and i ask for her phone number and gives her mine by calling her to check if its the right number (as a joke).
I then ask her if she wants me to help her find her friend since she keeps looking at her phone. We do so and do not kiss untill we finally find her. I introduce my self politely to her friend and then leaves both of them.

So later on the night (1.5 hour or so) i text her:
Me: Disappointed over such a sloppy introduction to your friend, Sarah! :wink:
Her: Haha im sorry about that :D
Me: Did you leave yet?
Her: No not yet <3 (note: i take the heart as a IOI ??)
Me: Still with your friend?
Her: No im on the hill
Me: Come to the bonfire (thats where i were)
Her: No im chilling here right now (she was about 300 meters away but it was really dark so hard to see anything)
Me: Fair enough, another time then.
Her: Yeah for sure :) See you a the next party then (there is arrange a party next friday for all the students at the school(
Me: no way, can't wait that long
Her: Then you have to come up here
Me: Just meet me

We don't text anymore from here and do not meet. The party was about to die and people were going home.
So here is what i would like to know? What did i do wrong and why did she seems so awkward about the kissing? Did i go in to quick, if so what should have been done differently? She laughed at my jokes and took my hand at some points as well. Also, should i text her now and what??

Extra info: She was not drunk at all and did not want to drink. I am a year older than her. She was really shy about the kiss and though she was a bad kisser.


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 18, 2013 4:16 pm 
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Wow, I can't believe no one else commented to give you some criticism, man....

Here's what I think: I think you did well actually having the balls to go in for the kiss and actually getting some tongue action. Thing is though man, judging by this post, it seems to me that she maybe feels weird because you weren't congruent enough in your delivery. How nervous were you, and more importantly, was YOUR body language just as bad as hers???

You have to also remember that most women are not used to a man being so bold with them. It can be intimidating to young girls, though I still advocate for it. Just a bit more refined, and, more gentle, if you will.

Gotta say though, I myself would never use the 5 questions game for a kiss. Ever. That's a routine that you do to have fun and outsmart her in a playful manner, further building rapport. Not as a sexual advance. I honestly would've just spotted something on her and made a sexual/romantic remark about it, once I felt that we were both vibing and on the same page. Then from there, I would have either just went in for the kiss, or said something like, "You're so bad" as I went in for the kiss.

You could have also done Mystery's Compliance test with her hands to gauge how much cooperation she was in with you.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 19, 2013 11:15 am 
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G'day Walcott,

I agree with Shredder that you deserve kudos for having the balls to approach and being honest about it all on here. Seeing as you asked for an outside veiw I'm going to spot a few things that I can see but take this with a grain of salt as I'm no PUA yet.

I'm pretty sure that she was closed and kept on her phone because you weren't talking to her friend, I'm like you and I want that target to talk to me but she's no doubt used to it and hence her being rude. Maybe concentrating on her friend or obstacle and negging over the shoulder, "gee is your friend ALWAYS on her phone?", "wow does she get radiation from that thing always being on?" that way she should open up because you weren't hitting on her, it was her being rude (without saying it)

I agree that the question game is designed for fun and raport and on that note I think the line in The Cube routine (look it up if you haven't already), "Do you want to know what it means? - It means nothing - Just kidding this is what it means" works wonders in being cool about it all.

After that you started to qualify yourself and seemed a bit needy, maybe it was out of context but the parts where you said, "Did you leave?", "fair enough another time" then, "I can't wait that long" and "where are you" maybe needed a bit more alpha male tact. "Hey I'm at the party, heaps of cool people here, but no you?", "Oh, i'm not going to lonely hill", "Yeah that hill must be chilly, it's super hot over here, the bonfire is warm also"

Anyway gutsy going and getting that kiss man, totally get props for that. Do you think maybe you had put all of your eggs in one basket?? maybe put the whole night's sarge just on one girl? either way I think it's a bloody great start and it was a good read. Tighten that game and I can't wait to see more.


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