your friend is 75% correct
I would think its harder in Poland as a 2nd world country compared to a first world country (no offense). Girls from 2nd and 3rd world countries are actually much more concerned about your family's status, money, and your actual job than they are in Western, northern Europe of the States. That's just a fact of life and culture. So having great game helps but not as much as it does in the USA because you do have some entrenched obstacles to overcome that great game cant entirely surmount.
Having said that great game will get you laid enough and...
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it's very hard to lead an intelligent conversation with girl who does not have any SPAM on usual topic,
Pickup has nothing to do with "intelligent conversations" and running your mouth ad nauseum. Learn about social value and forget about trying to gain rapport with woman through your brain, let alone using intelligence to gain initial attraction. If you continue to make that mistake, your game wont ever get good.