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 Post subject: Nice, then bitchy
PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 11:52 am 
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Hi Guys,

I have known this girl for about two months. The first month and a half we were ok. She would allow me to caress her neck, legs, butt, kiss, etc. I was not considering her too seriously at that point though. However, all of a sudden she became very bitchy towards me - making rude remarks, etc. Of course, I stood up to her, did not take any of that easily. Nevertheless, for the past two weeks she has been behaving like a real bitch. After one of these days, she messaged me an apology blaming her behavior on PMS. I took two hours to reply and did not concede forgiveness in my reply comment.
I then decided to ignore her altogether until she becomes nice again. Nevertheless, about two weeks have passed and she is still bitchy and cold towards me.
What a shit test!
I decided to let her go - and to stop all contact for real.
However, I saw her yesterday, and to my surprise she was still somewhat rude in her remarks to me.
Since I did not do anything wrong with her, her behavior is totally illogical from my point of view.
Have you guys seen that before?
Is there a way of placing her back on track, or should I forget her for good?
[I am only asking you because she is a HB9, otherwise ....]


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 Post subject: Re: Nice, then bitchy
PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 2:22 pm 
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 Post subject: Re: Nice, then bitchy
PostPosted: Fri May 24, 2013 4:32 pm 
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What do you mean you "stood up to her"? We're missing some elements here of your behavior. If you wouldn't have cared much about her would you really be this upset about the situation? Think about it like that. What you want to be is the fun guy who doesn't take shit, and by that I mean IGNORING her shit or at the very most just reframing it. For example if she's bitchy just think to yourself, "aww this girl is on her period. How cute" and just continue having fun. Being unreactive and enjoying your time regardless of her behavior is what will get the girl.

This girl is getting to you. You are pouty, and this is what is TRULY wrong here. Don't let her behavior faze you in the slightest. Whatever, this girl is bitchy now, oh well, loads of others out there who aren't.

Thing is your ignoring her is a sign of reactiveness. And this is what you DON'T want. Many times people think a freeze-out will fix the problem because you are ignoring her, but ignoring her (not her behavior) is actually a reaction in and of itself. You could have still totally gone for her, being persistent is attractive, but stayed unreactive and of course unapologetic about your actions.

She messaged you an apology. Now you didn't show forgiveness because...? Because she hurt you? Oh no boo hoo. You hurt me I no talk to you. I no show forgiveness. Forgiveness is the better path here my friend. Really it is. You may be all butthurt because she suddenly became a bitch, but are you not a man? Can you not take a little shit every now and then? You could've made a joke about it. You should know what you want in this situation. To get back at her, or to get WITH her. Your choice. If you want to get WITH her, know that reactiveness will not get you there, no matter how much you want to both slap her and fuck her.

And you are only asking because she is only a HB9. Why, if she were a HB7 you wouldn't ask? Wouldn't care as much? Well why do you care so much if she is a HB9? She's just another girl who's genetically gifted, that's all. What has SHE done to earn this high pedestal from you? Probably nothing. Hell she's a bitch now isn't she? Why should you give two fucks about her? Just enjoy your time and continue chasing chicks, and if you want to continue chasing her then do so, but have fun man, don't get brought down by her shit. Stay uplifted, casual, fun, and if she doesn't see how cool that is then that's her own fault. She's the one missing out here in the end because she still has a grudge for whatever reason, whilst you've moved on from this little hiccup. She either comes around or she doesn't. No need to get all mental masturbation on her.

And if it is truly illogical then there is no point in thinking about what may caused her behavior, because you will never get inside her head and therefore you will never truly know what's going on in there.


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