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I was at the mall with one of my friends and I was practicing some Day Game. I was in the food court when I saw two blondes sitting at a table. They were both HB8s. I approached with the intent of just practicing and used the floss opener:
Smiley: (smiling) Hey, I need both of your opinions on something real quick.
HB8s: (smiling) Sure!
Smiley: Alright, do you think you should floss before or after you brush your teeth?
Both girls took a minute to decide and looked at each other.
HB8s: (to each other) I think before. Yeah probably before….
HB8s: (to me) Before.
Smiley: You both agree on before?
HB8s: (smiling) Yeah.
Smiley: (smiling) Cool, thanks. I appreciate it.
Normally, if I’m just practicing an approach, this is where I would end it and walk away. But it just seemed to me, based on their expressions and body language, that they had at least a little interest in me. Both of them.
I made a list of some goals that I want to accomplish in this game of pickup. One of those goals is to open a 2set or higher and get every girl’s number from the set. But it only counts if every number replies when I text/call. So I figured I might as well go for it.
Smiley: Alright I’m gonna be honest with you guys. I came over here because I think you’re both pretty and I wanted to meet you.
HB8s: (smiling and looking at each other for a second) Thanks!
Smiley: You should both give me your numbers.
HB8s: Okay, sure.
So then I sat down at the table and got both numbers before making my leave. This was a few days ago, and I have texted both of them (both replied; goal complete). Now my problem is that I want to take them both out, but I don’t really know how to go about it.
I don’t know how to show them both equal attention….kinda in over my head here lol. I’m texting one of them right now and I mentioned taking them both out sometime, but I’m still waiting for the reply. I probably already messed it up because it’s been about 45 minutes, but that’s fine. I would still like to know for future reference how to handle something like this. Should I give more attention to one or give them both equal attention? Should I text both girls at the same time or just one at a time? Things like that. Thanks guys!
LOL alright bro... Glad you are over coming some obstacles that held you back.
Now, I'm gonna help you out.
1. Don't get in a habit of using the floss opener (LOL soooo many girls have heard that already. You WILL get called out on using it... ALOT. Nothing worse than getting caught using a line.) With day game, use more observational openers. Example.. Since you were in the food court, you could say something like... "Panda Express... Beijing Beef or Orange Chicken?" You can neg her on which ever one she chooses. If she says "Both" you could say "2 entree plate huh? Fatty!
" (granted she is not actually fat... Don't be an asshole) Then get off the opener... You're in. Just keep up the friendly banter and let the attraction build.
2. Stay away from direct game when you are practicing day game. It's creepy and it makes you seem desperate. You don't want a girl to think that you are out in the mall simply to pick up girls. This is where observational openers will help you because it seems like normal conversation. Plus, direct game, you are revealing your hand right away. People appreciate things that they have to work hard for. Make them earn your attention. It would be like getting a new BMW... You could work hard and buy it yourself or your parents could buy it for you. You will appreciate the car much more by paying for it yourself, knowing that you worked hard for it. Make girls work for you.
3. Don't be concerned about phone numbers. (I teach this to every single one of my students.) They really don't mean shit... Just keep the interaction going and advance as far as you can. Don't even bother getting a phone number until you break some rapport and find some common ground. This will give her a reason to give you her phone number (sometimes without you even having to ask for it) because she will have a reason to want to see you again. (Less flakes) They most likely gave you their phone numbers because they wanted you to get away. Girls hate awkward situations. Had they said no, they would have to sit there and listen to you argue with them as to why they should... They know this. It is much easier for them to just give you their number, you walk away, and they ignore you when you try and make contact and meet up again.
4. Get rid of your list of goals. Treat each interaction as you are simply going to TALK. Have NO expectations of outcome. Don't force for phone numbers or kisses or any of that shit... just talk and establish connection. Escalate kino. Pay attention to the interaction and learn from it. This is a read and react game. You read and asses the situation, you react a certain way... Be it positive or negative, you learn from it.
Good job on getting out there and talking! That is honestly the most difficult part for some guys. You just have to tighten up your game a little bit now
Hope this helps you out bro!
-Majik
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