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PostPosted: Fri May 10, 2013 10:42 pm 
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some info: its now 1:30 AM, isreal [some may like it some may not - dont really care..]. just got home from a house party..pretty early to come home but i just couldnt take it anymore.

so i arrived at my friends house before the pary started and it was really fun we where jokink and what not..
when the girls arrived [my friends and i are 19..the girls are 17-18] i tried my new pick up skills - im a beginer yeah...

i can honestly say that non of it worked! non of it!! i kept trying and got shut down every fu**ing time!!.. and not cuz i was going too fast no, i was getting shut down right at my Openers - "do you believe in magic?-no..", "i need a womens opinion [say the routine] - yeah i think its good..".

every god damn time!.. really makes me feel like a total looser and its not that im unattractive girls would often hit on me, i guess somtings changed.

i dont even know why im writing this sh**y post anyway, i guess i just need to vent..

hope you get lucky tonight guys and for the ones whose yime zone is different i hope you all get lai* in a couple of hours..

Good Night


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PostPosted: Sat May 11, 2013 2:56 am 
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some info: its now 1:30 AM, isreal [some may like it some may not - dont really care..]. just got home from a house party..pretty early to come home but i just couldnt take it anymore.

so i arrived at my friends house before the pary started and it was really fun we where jokink and what not..
when the girls arrived [my friends and i are 19..the girls are 17-18] i tried my new pick up skills - im a beginer yeah...

i can honestly say that non of it worked! non of it!! i kept trying and got shut down every fu**ing time!!.. and not cuz i was going too fast no, i was getting shut down right at my Openers - "do you believe in magic?-no..", "i need a womens opinion [say the routine] - yeah i think its good..".

every god damn time!.. really makes me feel like a total looser and its not that im unattractive girls would often hit on me, i guess somtings changed.

i dont even know why im writing this sh**y post anyway, i guess i just need to vent..

hope you get lucky tonight guys and for the ones whose yime zone is different i hope you all get lai* in a couple of hours..

Good Night
LOL don't be so hard on yourself man... You probably had something wrong with your delivery (tonality or body language) that made you unattractive. Remember... Those are ROUTINES that you are using. If you don't say make them seem natural... well they won't seem natural. It will come with practice.

And EXPECT rejection.. It's part of life bro. Not everyone will like you. Who cares though? Honestly...? Do you have time to be friends with everyone you meet? No.

Also realize... the "opener" is probably the LEAST important part of pick up. Could be that you staled out the set. Could be that you didn't transition into a conversation properly after the opener hooked. You didn't calibrate properly after the opener... Could be a variety of things. The point is... Make each night you go out a learning experience.... Don't go out expecting to get laid because you asked a girl if she believed in spells.......


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PostPosted: Sat May 11, 2013 4:37 am 
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Yeah, definitely has to do with delivery. People are extremely quick to judge. People can judge you in as fast as 1-2 seconds. I remember this guy in school tried talking to me once... His voice was so faint I didn't even feel like listening to him so after 4 seconds I just turned my head the other way and ignored him. Your delivery needs to be strong, powerful, and confident. People can hear it in your voice whether you're confident or nervous.


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