After a week anticipating my first sarge with a mixture of emotions I can safely say that Friday night went better than I had expected. With the ambition of Just going out and trying to improve my mid game, such as routines and shit I managed to come back with a phone number. Anyway here's how it happened was relatively quite in the club for a Friday with most girls already talking to some guys, thus I started employing group tactics to reasonable success, talked about the football games the next day And other shot to the lads before slowing introducing myself to the girls this happened a few times and as convosation station died I moved onto the next set but after the fourth set, I became disheartened and headed off to the bar. At the bar I spied a lone HB 7 and thus positioned my self next to her. After opening by questioning her choice in drink and running the drink personality routine we seemed to be hitting it off. After about half an hour, we moved clubs together to A place called Space where after a bit of talking and a magic trick by making her ciggerrette disappear behind my thumb She had to go :/ I asked for her name to add her on Facebook and she said ill do one better and give you my number. After she gave me it I was buzzing and got wasted for rest of night. Next day I called her saying I had fun night blah blah blah and we are meeting up again Saturday night at a bar just round the corner from my place. She's coming to mine first for a pre-drink. Therefore I think that night was really successful and a giant step forward for me. However I'd love some tips for my mid game as this is where I'm weak. Also how do I get her back to mine? I have a Hottub if that helps and I was thinking is saying something to invite her back for a swim.
Cheers for read
- Breeze_UK

Dude, it sounds like a great start to progressing your game if she was willing to do one better for you in giving you the number. Thats a IOI right there. With regards to getting her back to your house after you have had a few drinks on your date here are a few suggestions:

1. As you are leaving after pre-drinks show her the Hot-tub. Dont do it before or give her a tour. Do it like a last minute thing and just say.. oh before we go come check out my Hot tub. Show her then say we should fire that baby up after drinks and wait for a response.

2. After you have your drinks and are having a good time just say midway through. I am bored being out, am gonna go back and get into the Hot tub and you are welcome to join me.

3. Dont show her the hot tub when she arrives for pre-drinks.. go out have fun then just be like "did I show you my hot tub".. she'll hopefully say "no, you have a hot tub"? and you can say.. yes, we should so get back and have a night cap and you can see it in the process.

Just ideas.. add improvisation, whit and charm

Right so last Saturday I met this girl nicole again who I was on about. So she game over had a couple screwdrivers with me before we went out (never showed her the Hottub ). We were pretty wasted after about two hours and so I suggested we get a cab back to mine to go In Hottub she was like oh my god you have Hottub and practically jumped on my dick then. Anyway after she comes back to mine we make out in Hottub and one thing leads to another. The next day I ask her when I can next see her again as I enjoyed our time together. Big mistake their not sure why but she suddenly was uninterested in me. I rang her twice since and no answer so... Not sure I count this as a success or not. I mean I had sex but what I really want is a girlfriend. Over all thought I have to say it was a valuable experience and I guess don't seem t pushy about a next meeting is what I've learned. Anyway I look forward to my next sarge on the weekend and ill keep you posted
Breeze_UK

Good work mate! You have to set success bars in order to work out which game you want to play with each girl. For example with this girl, when you first posted about it, it sounded as if you just wanted to fuck her which you have successfully done. If you had said you wanted a relationship with her then the game to play is to not bring her back at all after first drinks. To keep her interested you have to seem uninterested and unavailable. The best asset for a PUA is that girls become disposable so if you lose one its not such a bad thing as you can just sarge for another.

If you are working on PUA for a relationship then you have to hold back on the sex with them. Take them on a date first then wait til they text you saying that they had a nice time or not. If they dont text you, you dont text them first. Make them feel like you are not after the sex at all because I would bet that Nicole is now shy because she will seem like a slut for giving it away too easy which makes her not girlfriend material(this is all in her head btw). Always make the girl do some of the chasing work otherwise you only come off as needy and thats far from what a PUA is.

Keep us posted but good work!