I texted the waitress who is 27 and super cute. Big boobs but obviously gets hit on all of the time. So, this wasn't my target. Upon entering the bar I went and used the restroom. I immediately saw a couple at the end of the bar. One was skinny and probably 24 and the other one was a semi-cute fat blonde. I sat down next to the cute one and proceeded to order a beer. After about 30 seconds, while she was still talking to her friend, I just started casual conversation. I wasn't really trying to pick this girl up, but it helped me establish social proof. After about 2 minutes of conversation I realized she was kind of drunk and quite. This wasn't really going to work. I got my beer from the bartender (a different one, a guy) and suddenly a guy pushed his way in between my bar stool and hers; facing her. He looked like some sort of skater guy so I wasn't too worried, nor did I really want this girl. Anyway I asked him," Do you want to sit her man." The tone of my voice was that of a person who was like WTF. He politely said no and thanks and I introduced myself. Apparently his name was Kevin.

I saw the cute waitress at the end of the bar talking to two older guys. Maybe 30-32. I'm 25. So, sad down and asked one of them if he was from here. That started the conversation that he was as sales agent. Further we started talking about my recent breakup and how I was out to meet girls; since he wasn't my competition it was more of a mentor apprentice conversation. The waitress briefly came over to the end of the bar and I gave her a hard time for not saying hello after I text her. It seemed that she was really drunk and wasn't a very good conservationist at this time.

After about talking to the guys for about an hour to scope the room up and build my confidence just approaching people, I saw that the original couple I was gaming was alone and barely talking. I walked up and sat next to the cute fat one and started giving her a hard time for giving me a dirty look when I originally sat down. Maybe she didn't notice but she did. I had initially broke the rule of approaching the the girl I wanted. So, I talked to the fat one and playfully complimented her. I eventually broke the cuter one out of her shell but she kept not continuing the conversation. I wasn't really getting any IOI's other than it seemed they didn't mind me sitting there. There was not body movement to indicate that I wasn't welcome.

After about a minute after the conversation ended, a few girls had text me. I replied as I decided to approach the three on the other side of the bar. Three younger females had just showed up and started ordering fancy drinks and shots. One of the girls who was probably the 2nd cutest, Pocahontas (I heckled her for looking like Pocahontas), was just sitting there texting with her body language facing away from her friends.

I approached and said," You look bored and lonely?"

Her friends immediately noticed that I had approached. I gave her a hard time for being emo and she angelically replied. I followed up by asking the group what the special situation occasion was. They responded positively and seemed to like that I had joined the group. The details are a little hazy because I did have a few drinks (maybe two beers; but I'm a lightweight). Eventually they all wanted to go out and smoke and I heckled them for smoking and told them how it wasn't attractive when a women smokes. Regardless, I asked if they minded if I joined. They said sure and after a few minutes we were out on the patio sitting at a four person table. (I'm in Nebraska and it was slightly cold). We carried on conversation and they asked me what I did for a living. I gave them a hard time for trying to get personal information of of me so soon. I told them I was an Engineer at the Nuclear Power Plant up north. (I'm not really sure how I should answer this because I don't want to over qualify myself to younger girls. Perhaps I should just say engineer to younger less established women and the Nuclear engineer to older established women.)

After speaking outside for about 10 minutes, it seemed I was part of the group. For a short while I kept carrying on conversations with all three at different times. Mainly because they kept using the restroom. After a short while sitting at the bar again, they started going to sit on the couch with a few friends. One of them asked me to join them and I obliged. When I walked over there, there were three guys sitting on the couch.

I asked Pocahontas a 8.5, why she would invite me over to a couch full of dudes. She didn't seem to know the right answer. This seemed like a negative indicator, but maybe she was just young and stupid. So, I turned away and went to the bar to close my tab and get one more beer. I hit on the waitress one more time and told her it wasn't nice to not give me attention after I stop in to see her. She shrugged and seemed to enjoy the comment. However, the conversation died off here because she seemed drunk and not talkative. I got my beer and closed my tab about 5 minutes later and received a few texts. My ride was coming to pick me up in 20 minutes.

With a time constraint I tried moving a little quicker; probably too aggressive. I sat down next to the leader a solid 9, and started talking to her about random shit. She seemed to enjoy it but had to go to the bar to get another drink or something. So after she got up I slid next to Pocahontas. She turned toward me and we started talking. I new I was running low on time, so I tried telling how you can tell so much about a person just by their hands. I motioned for her to give me her hand and she did. I made the mistake of giving her an example of how a person with soft hands is very sensual. When I grabbed her hands, they were rough. Not dry skin rough but like calissy (not sure of spelling). I didn't really know what to say after that. She seemed to be amazed that I would just starting touching her hand; she let me anyway. After about a minute of explaining this and trying to BS. I told her I had to go but we should hang sometime. I asked her and her friend if I could get a number so we could hang again. The one I wasn't giving too much attention said," you can have both of our numbers." So, I handed them my phone and number closed.

Next think I know we were all standing up and talking. I'm not sure the progression of this but it seemed natural. I had to go so I looked at Pocahontas and casually asked her," would you like to kiss." She seemed to pause and think about it for 5 seconds. I told her it was simple," there are three answers: Yes, No, and Maybe." She said to me," why would you ask a girl that, that you just met?" I didn't really have a good answer to this so I took that as a no, so I said," Well, I didn't say you could I was just wondering." Her other friend started talking about how they kissed all of the time (I wasn't really interested in her she was a 6.5).

To sum it up, I ended the night leaving and deleting Pocahontas number so I wouldn't be tempted to text her. She didn't really seem to feel it. I probably shouldn't have approached her first, but I didn't really have a specific target. I was just looking for an in. The 6.5 like me but I wasn't really interested though she was very nice.

-Godspeed