Well last Saturday I met up with a professional wingman and I was inspired almost immediately simply looking at how he dresses and his posture. We went to a local club and he gave me an opener to use and told me how to get the girls attention. My opener was 'Hey, do you think it's okay to date an ex girlfriends sister?' Got various and interesting responses too but I was pretty surprised at how helpful and interested most sets were. The vast majority of closes ended with a friendly handshake and a 'Thank you for your opinion, enjoy your night' because I always seem to run out of things to say from there, or maybe just lose my nerve and quit while im ahead. My wingman also told me to 'get blown off on purpose' and I was like "What, you mean, get rejected?" 'Yes, trust me' "Umm...okay..." so I approached a girl who was dancing from behind (Yes, supposed to be from the side) tapped her on the shoulder, smiled and put my hand in the air gesturing for a high-five, she gestured back with a polite 'No thank you' and continued dancing, afterwards I thought 'Well, that wasn't so bad! THATS the worst that can happen? Nothing to worry about then' I opened about ten sets throughout the night, some girls showed a lot of interest, some couldn't speak English well, one of them shit-tested me on the spot ect. I noticed the lesser attractive girls are easier generally. At the end of the night when I decided i'd had enough approaching and opening I was chilling out with my wingman and a couple of girls came outside to smoke, he immediately opened and began talking to the more attractive one and I watched intently as he preformed the twirl on her and kept up with the question, he friend standing on the sidelines feeling a bit left out, then I noticed she was wearing heels and I turned to her and said 'Those heels must be killing you, why don't you have my seat?' She said thanks and I was a real gentleman and we talked for a little while, just regular normal questions, at the end of that we hugged-closed (I hugged-closed about 3 women in total)

So I think I did pretty well for my 1st night, unfortunately I find it hard to lie to women, need to touch them more and need to work on building rapport and avoiding ejecting from sets early. AA feels like it has been banished too and I can approach anyone I want, can't wait for the weekend, will be out sarging and will never be sitting around in the clubs anymore looking stupid The bootcamp experience was well worth it, anyone shy should give it a shot

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"