Hey I'm basically stuck in a LJBF. I hangout with this girl like every weekend, usually just me and her. After awhile she found out that I like her, I asked her opinion she said I just wanna be friends for now. I said ok I just wanted to know where this was going and that I was fine with it but in reality I wasnt. We kept hanging out and after awhile I asked her if she wanted to go on a date she said I like having you as a friend. I basically told her ok I just wanted to see where this was going and acted fine about it. We still hangout but everytime we hangout I want to hold her hand or put my arm around her. Is there any way I can get out of this. I mean some people at my school even think we are going out! Let me also mention she has never had a bf or even kissed a guy. At first I thought she might be scared but now I just dont know.

Depends on how old she is. If she's quite young then she's probably just in the nervous teenager stage. If she's in her 20s then maybe she is gay, in which case I strongly recommend you stay in there because you never know what kind of 'open-minded' girls you're going to meet through her.

Either way, try not to get too emotionally invested in her. I would encourage her to bring her friends along next time. That way you can use her as a pivot to work on her friends and see if that makes her jealous enough to break the LJBF spell. If yes, then you've got her. If not, you've got her friends. Either way, you win.

ask her to try cocaine with you.


or alcohol.


your being her IW, and sounds like one-itis

your way of getting out of this is mm, start to date another girl?

I tend to agree with the idea that going out sarging is an excellent way to get over your one-itis making it easier to game her, and at the same time DHVing yourself. I don't feel this is the answer to everything like Mystery did in "The Game" however it is a good idea.

You can always take her out, turn up the attraction, and the kino to see what happens. Since you've already had the LJBF speech once you'll either get it again, or get the girl. I would reccommend going out sarging first to boost your confidence before you attempt this.

GOOD LUCK!

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There is no real difference in the game plan between gaming a brand new girl, and this girl. You have been put into the LJBF zone because she dosent view you as somebody that is "worthy" of making it past that. So your job is to prove her wrong. Do this by DHV, having plans that dont include her. You said you pretty much always hang out with her on the weekends. Skip a few. All girls get jealous, its part of their DNA play off that. A lot of times the LJBF zone is there because the guy is always at her beck and call. If she has you wrapped around her finger she dosent need more. To break outta that zone you use the same general idea as gaming a new girl. You be in control. Your in the zone because she put you there, you have to take back control.

Its game over with this girl she already said she just wants to be friends.
Now you're just hanging around her Hoping she'll all of a sudden have a change of heart that aint going to happen. You're too available for her she doesn't see as the man she wants to have backbreaking rough sex with. You meant you asked her on a date never use the word "date" its too boyfriend girlfriendish you don't want that yet say hang out or meet up or go somewhere. But you need to realize you put own yourself into the friend zone by not showing her your real intentions.

Move on to the next girl and state your intentions sooner rather than later

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Ok so I hungout with her this weekend but promised myself that this weekend would be the last time I call her to hangout. So from now on if she wants to hangout she will call me. But now I will start hanging out with other girls and doing other things and maybe talk to her at school and online but making her make the first move.

Your Hopeless

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what my friend did in this situation was just not talk to the girl for awhile, then eventually he sarged her again and ended up fucking her haha

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