i'm a confident guy, i've studied PUA for a few years now and i am by no means an expert, but i know quite a lot. I can approach ANY woman without issue. Looks wise i am 5'9, aged 35 but keep getting told by women i look 28, slim/athletic built. I was more muscular but i recently injured my shoulder and can't work out. Since then i've lost a lot of body mass....and confidence,

I go out socialising with a good friend of mine, he's a good wing man. But he is around 6'2, 27 years old, more muscular than me and has hair. NOW i have better game than he does, i'm more confident and have the banter.

The last two times we've been out i've approached hot girls left, right and centre. i've opened the sets, had banter, negged, all the usual shit and every time i do, the girls just gravitate towards him. it happened three times last night. I opened an awesome girls, sleek red dress, blonde, beautiful. she started talking to me and as soon as he said a word, she just faced him an left me out the conversation.

I'm not mad at my friend at all, he's awesome. But at the moment despite the fact that i am confident, i keep losing out. it seems that "game" is no substitute for looks, height, muscle.

Maybe i'm a bit down, having no hair IS a big issue to me and it's something i cant control. Im also feeling a bit "weedy" at the minute as i've lost a lot of body mass.

Any suggestions as to how i fix this guys??

Hey boss dont feel down!

Im 5'9 and i weigh 127lbs...yea 127, soaking wet in the rain..... it sucks. one of the guys i go out with is 6'2 built like a tank and has looks to kill. If i walked into the sets without the game 99% of the time he would take the girls home.

The secret is to make sure he is YOUR WINGMAN! he is on your side if its your set he needs to bail out.
thats minor though i have beaten my buddy many a times on my banter/routines alone.

Have routines that will make them think. if he kinos, kino quicker. If he makes em laugh make them laugh harder. I know its tough feeling like number two in the group but if a skinny 127lb kid can do it you sure as hell can. Just brush up your routines and keep that confidence up women can smell insecurity.

Last thing, before you go out do something as a confidence booster, if your bald who gives a shit! Wax that dome, work out if ya can and hit the town! Make your insecurities what drives you, because if you dont care then why should you care if some bar bimbo cares. Thats the confidence that will beat out your competition.



Anyway hope this helped - Sam

its all in your head man... just little bit of negative thoughts can kill my game. in my experience.
girls dont know what you looked like before you hurt your shoulder, only you know and you downing yourself.

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all very good advice and true. i never factored in that people never knew how i looked before. thanks guys:)

Cocaine.
I highly recommend it dude. Do a couple lines before you go out, maybe a few on the ride over.
Seriously dude. Cocaine.

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