| I am 23 yo, and I think I am good looking, but I have little experience, I had only one relationship which lasted almost 2 years. That relationship was only because my ex had the initiative (she picked me up, she made out with me, she initiated sex), but the relationshipended because she was a lier, and a cheater.
So I started looking for a good girl, and since I don't have a social circle of friends, I begun searching the Internet. So here I am going to tell you in detail all my steps.
#Step 1
I created a profile on the internet, after I putted some more better pictures of me I received more visits on my profile. Still this part can be improved much more.
#Step 2
I started looking for girl who had things in common with me. I mainly searched for "non-smokers", "non-drinkers" and girls from my city.
#Step 3
I started messaging girls, saying things like "I like your personality because you described like this, and I think we both have in common things like we don't smoke..." and so on, and "I would like to became friends with you". Some girls responded others didn't. The girls that responded, I asked them for the messenger ID.
#Step 4
Conversation on messenger, then asking for phone number, then phone messaging.
Conversation about common things such as "we like swimming", also being funny if she didn't answer some messege I will say "we will divorce and I will take the kids and you will take the dog", she begun laughing.
So everything was working good, I was persistent, it took almost 2 weeks for setting the date with this shy 16 yo girl.(almost 17 yo, without 2-3 months)
#Step 5
The Date
I was very nervous before the date (I don't know how to corect this), but I wanted to get a kiss on the first date. She was so shy when I met her that she brought a female friend with her, in case she didn't like me so she can excape. She and her friend liked my physical appearance. Her friend asked me some questions just to make sure I am not a weird guy, I think I passed the test very well. Then her friend left. The shy girl opened to me, and we talked in the park, very much. I knew she liked me but she was to shy to tell it directly to me and kept asking me "Am I ulgly?", or "Do you like me?", and also showing me some sign of gelousy because of her female friend which wasn't shy at all.
She had to leave because her mom called her, and she made it clear that no kiss or hugs because she was so scared.
#Step 6
The Kiss
When she was leaving I told her I won't leave if you don't kiss me. She was very shy because we were surrounded by people, she was scared. I told her "on a scale on 1 to 10. How would you rate your ability to kiss?" she said "I don't know", I said "Let's find out". I saw that she wanted but was to scared to try. I told her that she will be very happy to do it. After 10-15 minutes of conversation about this she kissed me on the lips but very shy and less than 1 second.
#Step 7
She I went home, and after she finished her work with her mom, she messaged me after some hours "How are you honey?" She was my new girlfriend.
#The conclusion
I think I will put more trust that she won't cheat me(because she wasn't so easy, and becuase she is shy), and I hope for a much better relationship, but I am afraid of losing her.(I don't want to became needy but I feel like I am becaming). I hope the second date will be with more kisses.(and make the relationship stronger)
She is very gelous, she wants me never to talk to her female friend otherwise she will break up with me. She also told me not to speak to other girls and she won't speak with other guy. I told her to trust me, and we can speak with who we want, but no cheating allowed.
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