| So here I am in the Field Reports section. I feel good right now. I've been doing a LOT of self-reflection, maybe a little too much, and now it's time to put this into practice. I'ved come to realize that there are mainly two things that make you good with women. 1) Being social and extroverted - talking to them, having fun, meaning being in "state", being awesome, the bomb, all that. You will naturally tease, push, pull, etc. and not care what she thinks by having fun and being in "state". You will be unapologetic about anything and everything you say and do. You will say and do what you want, and you will know what you want and go for it, without really thinking about it. It's just there. You're in the moment. 2) Being sexual - Being social is one part, but another part is being sexual and unapologetic about it. Knowing that men and women are meant to have sex, that there is an undercurrent of sexual tension between us two genders, and that you have no fear using it and getting close to a girl and having sex with her. You are sexual. A sexual predator. You're fine with it.
I need to work on both, but my strengths lie in number 2. I need to massively work on number 1. I will continue to work on being sexual, but there is nothing to work on, it's just...being sexual. Accepting sexuality and sexual tension and having fun with it. Getting close. Being the male. Being dominant. Leading. Taking responsibility all the way from approach to sex. I am to blame, and I am absolutely fine with it. That's my mindset.
For the next 21 days I will be doing or not doing some things to see what will happen. I have realized I think too much, I worry too much, not just girls and sex oriented, but in general. I can be very comfortable in social situations and dominate, but I can also be very uncomfortable, and these are the times where I think, worry about what people think of me, etc. The usual.
Now, for the three weeks this is what I will be doing or not doing:
Have fun and being social in every interaction - talk to people when I see them in Uni and kick myself into gear into being social
Actively seek to get laid - Be sexual with girls I like
Be sexual
No masturbation - When I get horny I use that energy and put it into something else, be it talking to people and having fun, talking to girls, getting laid, or my work
When there is a negative thought, focus on something else - Stop thinking
Self reflect only at home in the evening
Watch a film a day - I'm a film student, lacking in film knowledge recently
Recite pickup natural game beliefs and identity
Go on the Forums and help out
Do my essential reading for my Theory classes
Ignore my OCD - I have OCD, has its ups and downs, recently it's been turning up too much
If I think about a specific girl, I stop and focus my attention elsewhere - to stop caring I will stop thinking about her/them. Only think about them when it's time to write a text or give them a call or go on a date or meet her. To not care means to not think about those things. So stop thinking
I will always DO something, being productive - I will not sit in my dorm going on Facebook or some shit for an hour and end up being unproductive
When I am outside with people, no thinking. Have faith in my abilities and knowledge that I can self reflect at home in the evening. During the day stop thinking.
That's it. I go out on Saturday's to Pickup actively, and here in Uni I will be fun and social, and if I'm not in the mood, I kick myself into it. There is always energy within me, and I will direct it into the direction I want to.
My beliefs:
Have fun
Say and do what you want
Know what you want and go for it
Be unapologetic about it
Be non-reactive - don't take her shit
Be uncaring
Be sexual
Move forward - put the pressure on her
Rejection is better than regret
Lead - Take full responsibility at all times
Be honest 100% in your intent
Here we go.
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