WARNING: There is alot of AFC stuff about to go down in this report
(I wasnt going to post a field report, but I have decided to now lol)
I went to my favorite restaurant about a month ago and sat in a BEAUTIFUL waitresses section.
Since I have been there before I have had her wait on me SEVERAL times. She was always friendly, but nothing to flirty.
Anyway.. At the end of the meal she said I should request her again. I told her I wasnt going to eat there anytime soon due to the fact that Im starting to eat healthier. So she said
"I should give you my number" She wrote it down and I texted her that night.
Im not going to write down EVERYTHING I texted her, I'm just going to highlight my failed attempts to hangout with her to highlight my persistence.
Hangout attempt one:
after texting her a few days I asked her to hang out.
ME: So I was thinking. We should grab something to eat.
HER: I would but I'm busy. Sorry.
Attempt Two:
One week later
ME: My friends having a Stand Up Show on Tuesday, Join me!
HER: I work. Sorry
Attempt Three:
One week later
ME: How spontaneous are you?
HER: Very. Why?
ME: Let me pick you up at 6. I have an awesome Idea.
HER: I would.. But I work. Im sorry I really would have hung out though.
Attempt Four:
(A few days later)
ME: You like yellowcard?
HER: OMG YES!
ME: Me...You.. Yellowcard.. Your coming.
HER: I Have work!!!
Sorry
That night I met the band Yellowcard and I actually had them call her. They said she should go out with me.. all that good stuff.. then they handed me the phone.
ME: hahah whos the man??
HER: OMG I LOVE YOU!! THANK YOU SOOO MUCH!!
ME: I know i know!!
HER: You made my night.
ME: Alright, make it up to me and hang out
HER: Alright! DEAL!
ME: Sweet. Ill text you tomorrow to get it set up.
Attempt 6:
ME: alright, when are we hanging out.
HER: I find out my schedule tomorrow Ill let you know friday.
ME: Ok cool.
(a few days pass and its now Saturday)
ME: So.. Whats your schedule.
HER: Im free on tuesday.
ME: I cant do that. Maybe next weekend?
HER: Cant Im out of town.
I decided to make one more attempt... My final attempt..
ATTEMPT 7:
(Halloween)
*I took a pick of myself dressed like a nerd doing a stupid "sexy" duck face pose.
I sent her the pick and wrote
ME: According to my calculations you will find this irresistible. Hang out soon?
(after 2 hours)
HER: Why do you want to date me so bad?
ME:
Well, every time I asked you said you were busy, so I assumed you wanted to hang out but couldn't. Also I got a good vibe from you. You seemed like a genuine person and I feel like we would have a good time together.
HER: Fine. Ill go out with you. WIll you stop asking?
ME: Yes. Ill text you tomorrow to set up the details..
What I thought was key to getting the date.
1) I assumed she was telling the truth when she said she was busy.
2) I usually would have gave up by the third try, but since she kept giving me a reason why she couldn't hang out, I kept giving her chances. (Afc probably)
THE DATE
I thought it would suck, because she set it up for Sunday at 3 PM. But we ended up having a great time and she invited herself over to my house for hot tub, and x box. She told me one of the resons she said yes was because I was persistent.
Unfortunately, I decided to go AFC and not "Game" her at all.. So after a few weeks of her coming over every day I became friend zoned.. BUT... (trust me on this guys) I know that if I used any Methods, I could have had her.
CHAT