Hello PUA's, I have a problem.

So about 6 months ago this HB came from New jersey and I befriended her. We ended up liking each other(AFC days) and were practicably dating. All was well until I introduced her to my friends(so called friends). After that all the problems started. I was still a AFC so I would do AFC stuff when she made me mad. So finally one time she went skinny dipping with one of my so called friends when I was working, I found out. The next day I told her to not text me anymore because I don't want to see her. We had a huge argument that day, then we stopped texting. A week later I met a HB8 that I k-closed at a party. she invited me to another party. first I didn't want to go because I knew New Jersey girl would be there. But HB8 insisted and promised there would be no problems. So when I got there I came up to New Jersey girl chit chated with her a bit. Explained to her that I have no problem with her. Then I told her to give me a hug. She did. Later on in the party I was making friends with some guys and this guy out of nowhere called me a Faggot. At first I thought he was talking about someone else because I didn't know him. turned out he was talking to me. New Jersey was jealous that I came to the party because of HB8 and told everyone that I Beat and abused her, and that is why we broke up. I was so mad but I left I didn't have any back up so I didn't want to get mobbed by those guys. So After that my reputation started to go down in my town. I live on a island so everyone knows everyone. About a month ago I was at the beach and this girl asked me for a ciggerrete. I turned around and told her we can share it. Out of nowhere she was like " I know you, your that guy that was mean to my friend(New Jersey)". I didn't know what to say after that o.0. Another girl texted me and asked me if I beat girls! Its been almost half a year. I never beat her or anything. It's really getting to me that everyone thinks I hit girls. I don't even want to go to town or hang out anymore. If someone else asks me if I hit girls, How should I approach it? What should I say? I never hit a girl in my life! This sucks.....

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The more you react to the rumours, the more truth they will see the lies. Best way to get past this is brush it off, get another nice girl and start dating her. Girls talk and soon the rumours will be cleared up that you are actually a cool guy that woman find attractive.

If you have a vengeful streak you can always mention that the reason you "broke up" with this chick is because she had a horrible STD/stinky pussy and you didnt want to call her out on it, so you just broke up. Once again, chicks talk.

But in that case you would have to live with the consequences, (shit like that could backfire) so its your call. Clean or dirty.

Wow that really sucks.

How is your relationship with HB8 that you were with before the rumor? I also agree with the above poster to not let the rumor get to you as hard as it is because if you react with a hint of violence, it will confirm their suspicions which is not what you want.

I def do not recommend revenge since it may backfire. If you said she had an STD, people may think you have one as well which will make your gaming harder.

I dont know if this will work but ask to talk to your ex and tell her how disappointed you are in her resorting to such degrading lies that are offensive to you and that you expected much better. Im not really in favor for this since I would much rather just cut the ex out of my life completely but this is a small island.

I am sorry to hear this, i had a lot of rumours about me spread about, the reasons for i honestly don't know to this day.
I would listen to the second post on this topic, the man speaks sense, and in the future watch out for red flags before you pick a girl to be your missus, make sure you pick them not the other way round.
In the meanwhile, counteract them with saying things about her, or find yourself a nice woman and that will diffuse it.

Truth is most people are very fickle and stupid like children, one day they will hate you, the next day they will hate you. No one cares what the truth is, and this can work to your favour sometimes, if you don't care about the gossip. Put this bad experience behind you and embrace it, it will make you a lot stronger in your life.

Thanks alot guys. I have recently moved out and started making pretty good income. It does not bother me anymore. I cut out everyone one that was talking about the rumor in my life. I see people around but I do not engage them. I am doing very well at the moment. So this HB shit is not bugging me anymore. I guess you can say my value improved and I feel better about myself. Thank you for all the support and effort. And btw marron where you from?

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[quote]I cut out everyone one that was talking about the rumor in my life. I see people around but I do not engage them.[/quote]
It's so motivating to see someone actually improve their life. :) I juggle from forum to forum sometimes and wonder if Mystery Method hasn't screwed people up more than it helped them.

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