| it's almost sunrise, and i just got back from the most amazing day 2 i ever had!
I've never been good with girls, and even after i started learning PU i never did well. I'm a very shy person, so bars and clubs are a very 'scary' place for me. i was really inspired by a post i read here a few months ago about this book called onlinedatingpro com and all the success the guy got from it, although it did seem like it was too good to be true. i eventually checked it out and bought it.
meeting girls on the internet is perfect for someone like me. i can really communicate well in email, and once i figured out how to write emails that girls respond to it was a blast.
the girl i went out with today (well, yesterday) was this really sweet actress (nothing fancy, just local theater and stuff), she was very pretty, and in the past i would have never even thought a girl like that would go out with a guy like me (i know, i know, i need to work on my self esteem - i am....)
anyway, we met at a coffee shop she picked (i should have picked it, but i wussed out), but that was ok, because i knew the place and got there early to plan my bouncing. when i met her i gave her a hug and kiss on the cheek, she was a bit surprised and later commented on how she never got such a "warm" welcome on a first date, but kino had started!
we had some standard conversation, and i was feeling the date dying out after a couple of hours, so i decided to be bold (for a change) and began busting her balls a bit on this bigass bracelet she was wearing. i asked her if she was a gypsy... LOL! she got all huffy at first, and i thought i lost her, but then we both started laughing and things really picked up. i ended up bouncing to another location after that for a late night snack.
at the end of the date, i walked her to her car, and we were still talking. so i did sort of a lock in - i leaned against the car and she was standing in front of me.
then i decided to go for a kiss. so i leaned in and did it like the book said. a quick one first, then a longer one.
we just kept talking after that, holding hands, and a few minutes later, i just pulled her to me very softly, and we started to make out while i was leaning on her car and she was on top of me. that was awesome!!! we even got a group of guys passing by to honk at us and give us the thumbs up! never happened to me before!!
i didn't have the balls to fclose her, but this was a huge confidence builder, and i know it will eventually come now!
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