So last night was my first night out. I am a complete newbie and have never gone out alone before. All my friends are either asexual AFCs, married or have LTRs, so I' have no one to sarge with. Long story short, I went to three different venues alone, and was so intimidated at the thought of approaching sets by myself I froze up completely. I would just stand at the bar, make eye contact with a girl, smile and say "Hi". but never moved past that stage.Even when she smiled back. Pathetic I know. I was trying to pick out girls who were standing by themselves, but everyone was in big groups with lots of guys in them, and I just spent the entire night with my balls stuck in my mouth.

I guess being a newb I just have to force myself to approach more. But, how do you deal with approaching big groups when you're alone, especially when they contain AMOGs. Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks.

There are many great posts on this forum about dealing with AMOGs and opening mixed sets. Search for them then apply them. Remember... The road to hell is paved with good intentions. Do today what others won't, tomorrow acheive what others can't.

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What happened to you is basically the hardest part of night gaming--which is opening large sets while solo sarging. Starting out, it might be fairly hard for you to neutralize amogs and number close girls in the set. You could always try opening the guys, then work the angle from there. Or only open smaller sets with just females. You'll still need solid openers and good routines, so preselecting your sets and using the right approach will only get you so far. That's my two cents on it.

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