This is a set I had today which I am not sure if I screwed up or she just wasn't interested.

I was at an outdoor bar and walked up to a girl and successfully opened her with a simple tap and "hey I think your cute and I wanted to meet you."

We exchanged names and I asked about what she did for a profession and then when she asked me what I did and what my age was I had her guess. Her friend came, introduced herself to me, and guessed my age (correctly I might add). I joked about not asking women their ages and asked her friend about her profession. Her friend worked at a video rental store so I joked that I rented their videos but didn't browse their adult section to which the target replied that she had a lot of pornos (another joke).

The target then talked about my approach in contrast to other guys who just crash into her and I remarked how much better I was with a laugh. She then asked if I had a drink, then after showing her mine immediately asked I get her a drink to which I replied she better show that she was worth it.

She then asked about my education (since my education was kinda unique) so I brought both in closer so they could hear and used that as pretext to put my arm on her neck. After the explanation, she immediately pulled back and kinda threatened me not to put my arm on her neck (not jokingly either). She then started explaining how I needed to "build up" to her neck by touching her arm first. I admit that I was surprised by the sudden retort back and kinda shut down which led to the friend jumping in a nearby photo and dragging the target there, basically resulting in me losing the set.

I'm not sure if I lost her with the arm or if I did something before but the immediate retort like I pissed her off or something was pretty surprising for me. I didn't think this was a shit test because she seemed pretty pissed off (granted I have not experience many shit tests). What I don't get is that I felt I built some rapport with the long conversation with no sexual escalation at the time and touching hands, which I usually do, seemed kinda weird since we were standing. Did I kino too fast? Are there any other areas where I messed up?

It sounds like she might know about PUA. However she is right, usually you have to build up to the neck/face region since those areas are pretty sensitive. I wouldn't do that unless you build up to it, or if she is giving you a lot of IOI's or kino'ing you back. Check out the link below for the Dicarlo Escalation ladder. You might find it helpful.


http://www.scribd.com/doc/16768511/Vin- ... ion-Ladder

Honestly I think she knew quite a bit about game since she basically commented on my kino and approach. I almost wanted to ask her about improving my game but that would be really AFC lol.