well, not that much, but i liked the title.

so, anyway, a year ago i met this girl, a 7, nice and all, gamed her well, took her on a couple of dates. she never flaked, never cancelled, but she seemed always aloof and a bit too serious. i tried to hold conversations, with a bit of success, but not that much. did the cube to her, she liked it, but still.

after i left her at her house in the second date (or third?) i asked her if i could come in. she agreed. there were two of her roommates at home (don't know if that's the reason of her ASD) tried to kiss close (or f-close, if the situation would arise), romantic caveman style (smelling her hair, telling her it smelled nice, and then kissing her on the neck and ears) but she stood still, and trying to move my hands away from her.

well, long story short, nothing happened, i got home, and said, "fuck this, i'm resigning from this shit, three dates and nothing". and didn't call her again. she never did call me either.

a couple of days ago, i texted her, asking what was all those dates all about. she said that she liked me, but she's just shy, and she never called, because she doesn't want people to think she bothers too much by calling or texting first. i told her: "no shit, my complete view on life has changed, i though you weren't interested." i kept gaming her with texts, and the next day i asked her for a date. she agreed, so, wish me luck.

the thing is, that i never thought she was shy, i thought she was not interested at all. and looking back, i've thought the same thing from a couple of other girls too.

so, next time i find myself in the same situation. instead of stop talking to them, for the fear of appearing too needy, i'll just keep pushing. either way, i wasn't going anywhere without calling her.

p.s. i think my good looks (I'm probably a 9) just make them too nervous. jk, maybe my own insecurities made me see her as serious, instead of just nervous and/or shy.

p.s.# 2 although some things are in quotes, i never said any of those things literally, i speak spanish, and wouldn't say "mierda" (shit in spanish) to a girl, but i think it's better translated that way. there are things you can say in english, but not in spanish. they would just come out a bit weird. (common sayings and phrases mostly)