Dear Friends,

This is my first field report. I am 30 years old, but better late than never eh.

I have been thru the usual literature and the Mystery videos which I found most instructive.

For the couple of weeks, I have been abstaining from masturbation and have been trying to sarge and pick up girls.

As of yesterday, I had a Facebook close, a kiss + number close and an email close.

As of today, I have only followed up on the email close. The girl was in her (by my estimate) late 30's to mid-40's. At the bar, where I initially met her on Friday night, her anti-social friend was there and I used a common skiing interest as a pretext to get her email address. At the time she gave me her email address, I sent her an email (in front of her) so that she would know who I was, if and when I chose to contact her.

The next morning, I found an email from her thanking me. It went Thanks x3182 with her number and full name in the signature section of the email.

I waited a day, and decided to escalate by sending her a text (as opposed to email) and introducing some light sexual content. Text went like Morning Ms sexy skier. Its x3182 from xxx on Friday. How was your weekend so far and what are you doing right now?

She said Blah Blah. Headed to XYZ bar later.

I say Text me when you get to XYZ, I will try to get there, no promises

She text's, I play a little hard to get, tell her that I have plumbing problems in my house and I may/may not be able get there. 15 mins later I text her saying that the problem was solved and I am leaving now.

I get there and she is all over me. We "go for a walk" make out and she gives me a blow-job. Since I haven't masturbated in a week, I come really quickly within a couple of minutes, (this is probably a good thing since it is a blow job).

At the time, I thought that I was gonna get laid tonight, but I might have behaved a bit too needy. I initiated a lot of kissing in public. I think I should have played it cool and let her work for my attention. A woman's worst fear after busting your rocks is that you will forget her... I should have used that.

Anyways, probably because of my neediness, she didn't want to fuck later.


I do want to fuck this girl, but think that I should give the girl some space to start wanting me. Tomorrow, I will text one of the other numbers that I harvested over the last week and try to escalate it sexually.

This girl I will probably tease with a thank you text tomorrow that will probably go
Thanks for a most memorable evening last night, hope you didn't need to touch yourself. Are you wet, tingly and touching yourself now?.

If she replies to the affirmative, I will tell her that I wish I could see her tonight but work is crazy. Instead of her, I will try to work on one of the other girls... if something comes out of it, I will have a field report on some other girl tomorrow. Otherwise, I will be sarging at the mall or the supermarket.

Thanks for listening.