Yo guys,

Went out on thursday night, met a hottie. We stayed out till 5am, but couldnt get her to come to my place, she was pretty drunk by then - gave me her number, made me promise id call. I said sure.

Yesterday (Saturday) I sent a couple of funny messages. But in the end she didnt meet up with me. The messages are below:

ME: OMG That's it - I come home and find out you have been shagging the pool man! I want a divorce - WTF we gonna do about the cats?? Fluffys mine.

HB8: How could you even dare to insult me like that after leaving me alone for the last 2 years & being more busy with your job, your rehab & your secretary?!?

ME: Haha!! SOMEONE is going to get a spanking next time I see her - perfect weather for it tonight "wink wink"

HB8: Hahaha!! Gonna be careful but tonight i'm going to have a douple-date with ruben block from triggerfinger and dr. eisenfaust aka wladimir klitschko... Cya

Not a bad interaction.

So what now? I know I cant say "lets go for a beer" but she didnt suggest another time or anything.

Was my message wrong? Any tips on how to actually meet this girl? I can say that she definitely liked my on thursday... but you know... help! need to f close - she was hot.

cheers

Hi Wiseg_7,

As i sit here on my couch reading your post while drinking my Jack's on the rocks, I am pleased to see your results and so, I raise my glass for playing it right.. GOOD PROGRESS!!!

Loving the text messages.. Teasing and playful, at the same time. Ok, since she didn't stated about "another time" or "next time", the way I see it the game is still on. She replied your texts, that means she's still interested.. There's a possibility she might be playing cat and mouse.. Try texting her after 3-4 days and see whether she'll accepts or not.. But this time, try saying something that she can't refuse.. For example, end the speech like "................, but unless your not adventurous enough, I don't think you should really bother."

So good luck on your next encounter with HB8, play it clean and play it safe.. All the best!!

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Thanks bro. As it turns out - I decided that I had nothing to lose. If she says no, well f* her, Ill get another number on the weekend. Sick of chasing the same girl.

So I messaged on Monday night - last night.

Me: Trouble maker - I might be free on Wednesday night if u want to join me for drinks... Note: this is NOT a date, no need to wear your special underwear.

HB8: Sure dude, cant stay out all night blah blah, which bar you had in mind?

Me: A few drinks - Ive got a flight to XXX on Thursday. Adress - 19:30. Let me know what your wearing - it would be awkward if we wore the same thing

HB8: Im not ashamed of it if we would be sharing the partner look...

Thats it. Date on Wednesday night, Ill tell you lads about it.

Any other tips guys? Often chicks become sick on the day... I didn't write back to her last message.

But I really love your adventurous response thats awesome - Im generally more successful with girls that can speak English very well - which is rare for me - I live in germany. Lucky this chick lived aboard somewhere - no idea where - i was to busy playing with her @ss at the time. Wish me luck. Its been a while since I had a HB8.

THIS IS A WARNING TO MY FELLOW PUA MATES

Today HB8 messaged:

HB8: Can we change venue, please, it that ok with you blah blah blah.

ME: What! Well... Only becuase you asked so nicely, whats googlemaps... see you tomorrow night

HB8: Shit I thought it was tonight! Im sitting at XXX wanna come over?

ME: Haha! Sure call ya in an hour see where u are...

I call in an about 45 minutes, once I got home and was "ready". She didnt pick up.

I just want to give my thoughts - Dont show you are desperate. A chick will RARELY, in fact almost never change her plans - even she they were as lame as washing the dishes.

I showed too much desperation.

I couldve said, "Let me see what I can do".. or simply "Already got plans... tomorrow is better".

Dont ever think she is in the bag, no matter what she says - its ALWAYS A TEST, ALWAYS.

Be strong friends. Everything that comes out of her mouth is a test.

If you got 1 HB8 phone number - you can do it again. Have faith.

This was a big lesson to me.

And I wanted to share it, how 1 message, can actually ruin the whole thing.

Peace out.

Wiseg

HAHAHA!! SHIT!!!

Well in this case of Scenario, it's obvious she's playing cat and mouse!! It's more of a push-pull theory, cat-string theory or whatever they call it these days.. She's applying all that to you and don't fall so easily..

Your reply was perfect, but like you said... Never give in too easily and yes, don't show desperation.. One thing we men should learn, we are not the puppets that kids play. We are the kids and women are just simply puppets!!

The way I see it, keep on seeing this HB8 but NEVER, once again NEVER fall her into the one-itis category.. Stick with negging, and go Super KINO (mixture of romance, cocky and funny during KINO) when you get to see her.. And yes, if there's a random new target HB, hunt em down and number close.. It'll make you feel better.. You've gone so far Wiseg, don't stop on your account and keep on progressing..

Your a big fish in the pond, show her and prove her why you are..

All the best Wiseg, cheers..

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