Hey guys!
So last night I went out with this HB 9 (10 if she had a little more in the chest area
) When we met I opened with a hug (early kino is always nice) I took her minigolfing. It was great I had her laughing and smiling the whole time. We talked a lot and got to know eachother somewhat, of course I didn't forget the c + f, although I feel like I was a little light with the flirting
, she still had a great time. She was terrible at minigolf
and I'm usually not very good either but she happened to catch me on a great night.
Anyways I tried my hand at a little anchoring as I understand it. Normally at the end of a game of mini golf you hit the ball into the final hole and try to get a hole in one so you get a free game next time. But instead, what I do is I keep the ball, and when she asked where we go for that last hole I told her: "Well you know I just keep the ball, I'm up to five now and each one reminds me of good times I've had here. So why don't you just keep yours so it can remind you of the good times we spent here tonight?" She said that sounded like a good idea and put it in her purse. Hopefully she'll look back at the ball soon and think of me and smile haha.
Also I tried another version of anchoring that I've come across. When I would say something that had her laughing or if I was C+F, I would touch her upper arm (not awkwardly of course), which should supposedly anchor those good feelings of laughter and joking to that spot on her arm. So next time I see her I'll try touching her there and see if it brings a smile to her face.
Then she got in my car and we drove over to Starbucks for some coffee (she wanted to pay for mine too so I let her), we were the only ones in there so it made a great SPAM for us to just talk. We stayed long after our drinks were done. Then I drove her back and we talked some more in my car in the parking lot. I tried my hand at a neg, and in my opinion it turned out to be a really good one for just thinking it up on the spot. She babysits for 3 little boys for a family she knows, and she told me she was a dork because she lets them put stickers on the inside of her car to 'decorate it. To which I replied: Aww how cute, my grandma lets my little cousin do that too when he's in her car! (It's true too haha) I then got a laugh out of her and she hit my arm telling me how mean I was to her.
I told her that's all I had planned for the night, we walked over to her car and (here's where I'm kicking myself now) we talked for a minute, had a big hug and she said "I'll hear from you soon hopefully", to which I had some C+F comeback, and then we said goodbye.
Now I'm kicking myself because I didn't see the opportunity I had to kiss her in my car. With hindsight I realized that her body language was all for it (mirroring me, playing with her hair, eye contact and then quickly looking away, smiling the whole time and laughing at my jokes.) I'm an idiot and now I'm thinking I could end up with an LJBF if I don't kiss her next time we go out.
I came out of the whole thing feeling pretty good with the exception of the kiss close. If you guys read this whole FR, you get a high five. And then I would really appreciate some constructive criticism or any advice you might have. Thanks for reading!
See you Gentlemen in the field,
~Muse
CHAT
that I'll never understand.