so i have this friend, he liked my sister and my sister liked him but they didnt do anything i met his sister, shes gorgeous, and over the past month we became close friends and such so a little while ago i started to like her as more than a friend, and i told her but, she became great friends with my sister
and about a week and a half ago they made a pact not to date eachothers brothers
they are like best friends i guess, shes slept over, came to my birthday party, all that
and shes legit one of my best friends now
so saturday there was this party, and after it she slept over
i cooked for her and my sister, and after they ate, we decided to watch a movie
this is at about 1 in the morning
so we cuddled and just talked for like 2 hours. my sister fell asleep and i asked if she would like to kiss me, she said it wouldnt be fair to my sister
at like 330 we went upstairs (my sister was in bed already)
as i was giving her a hug goodnight, she asked if it would be okay to come to my room
she laid down on my bed and eventually said that she shouldnt be doing this
and then we hooked up, it went pretty far, i got her bra off, and sucked her tits. this was saturday night, she went to bed and i didnt see her in the morning
sunday night she texts me saying that she doesnt want a relationship or hookup buddies or pretty much anything, she doesnt know how she feels about me, and i assume its because of my sister
but i really like her and dont want to lose her
what do you guys suggest i do?

Please help me,
Ice

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I'm 16, deal with it.

Hm..tough situation. What I would do which is a little bit risky and you need to have tight game for this. You need to make her feel "jealous" or that she made a bad choice about not wanting to be with you. Pre-selection does that. Start hitting it off with multiple chicks and get her to witness you being surrounded by women and women wanting your attention. This would be what I would do..dont chase her man. Women respond to emotions..if you start to show emotions for the fact that she doesnt want to be with you..she will just keep doing the same thing. Indifference is the key. Indifference is what pisses people off..punish with indifference and getting girls to like you. Dont give a shit that she told you that..dont even bring the subject up..you'll see what I'm talking about if you do this right. Good luck!

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Alright man thanks I'll try it when I see her tomorrow. I'll post about how it goes

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I'm 16, deal with it.

I agree with what has been said. But listen, she's saying she doesn't want anything more, why ? Because she assumes you had that idea in your mind !! If it was me in that situation, I would simply say : "yeah, me neither.. I can't afford any kind of relationship right now" or "where did you get all those ideas ?! That was a night of passion and I don't know why it happened, just don't give it so much importance !!"

Well thats my advice, hope it will help (probably too late, I know)

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