ok guys heres my report on this stunning redhead I met.
I was out on friday night for a 21st and seen this really cute redhead sitting solo waiting for her freinds (they were at the bar).
I was out teaching my freind so I told him to aproach her, he made up an excuse saying he liked the barmaid so I went for it! Ive been picking up girls for over a year now and have learnt that confidence is my secret weapon.
so when I approached her solo I think I caught her off guard a lil I opened slightly direct asking why "a cute girl is sitting by herself in the corner?" when I realised she was irish I got pretty hooked and am struggling not to get obsessed.
we then went on to talk about our work and studys keeping consistent eye contact!
I gave her a little playful stick saying she came off as the quiet girl who stays in and knits with her gran then we played some board games that the bar had. I got on great with her freinds and 20 mins in still aint had to buy a girl a drink (looking good).
after we were done playing I had minor kino going on (high 5s and arm over shoulder) she decided to move on to another bar I had to catch up with my freind so I just said "oh okay then number?" so we swapped and I text her the next day asking how her saturdays going then asked what her plans for the night were, she said she didnt know what she was doing and I told her to text me when she made her mind up and 2 hours later she text saying she was free and let her know what I want to do?
this surprised me never did I think things would move so fast with a nervous girl but the problem is I know nothing about dates!
its sunday now and in a cheap attempt to avoid oneitis I never text her all day.
on to monday now and valentines day is pretty near if I take her out then its coming off too strong for a first date.
also I'm sick and tired of cinema dates you dont get to talk much and its only good for kino.
I actually have 2 ex's that I text instead most of the time so I dont come on too strong with her but its around 4 now so I decide to text her and set up a date:
me: hey hows university going? had to be up at 6am for gym this morning felt like death! xxxx
hb:hey uni is okay....what you doing today ? ah gutted! am going to the gym after uni today xoxo
me:oh yeah what gym are you at? I've been helping my freind train for a marathon hate the early mornings Xxxx
hb: I go to the uni 1 oh gutted good luck! xo
me:decent I heard they have a great swimming pool. I go to the rubbish gym cause its cheap haha you coming out with me on wednsday or thursday night? I got invited to speed dating and need a way out lol Xxx
she must have been out that night cause she text back at midnight and this is how it went:
her: I'm free thursday

or even tonight
me: you woke me up! thursdays canceled! hahaha xxxx
her: haha nooooooo :'(
me: only joking

you can be my apprentice party animal xxx
her: thats a deal sexy xxx
so shes asked me out and she seems pretty into me at this point now onto the next day:
me: so how was last night? guessing you were out...so much for you hitting the gym :p xxx
her: Sorry about the texts last night. So embarrassed, I was very drunk! whoops haha. how is your day? doing anything? xo
me:haha well you impressed me guess your not that quiet girl anymore

I'm working till 7 you just recovering? Xxxx
her: I impressed you with my drunk texts? haha ahh okay

yeah recovering very hungover! xo
me: haha tbh I'm just happy its not me sending them! just live on toast all day

cheap and cheerful xxx
her:haha I'm very embarrassed about them!! recovered now

xo
so shes embarrassed them but sometimes the truth comes out when your drunk

on wednsday I got offered tickets to the darts and it clashed with our date so I turned em down, I told her about this and she went nuts saying I should have took the tickets! I brushed it off with a joke telling her it wasnt her scene cause I guessed it was a lil bit of a shit test then she never text back.
next day and its the day of our date so I text her saying:
"morning! man am up early so thought I'd give you a little text was thinking meet at rileys tonight at 8 can you make that?"
she never text back to that either and me not wanting to be desperate just left it for the day I was supposed to go out to the darts but her not even replying made me feel so shit I just wasnt in my zone so I stayed in feeling miserable.
and now we are on today still feeling crap I hate it when girls make me feel like this it shouldnt happen if I want to be a pua, so I'm going for the 3 strikes and your out rule! if she doesnt text back now I'm deleting her number and moving.
I text her saying this: "Out for the weekend or having a lazy 1? xxx"
and she texts back!! this girl confuses the shit out of me she doesnt even mention our date either.
I thought I've played everything perfect with this girl but I never even got the date!
so heres your turn to scan for mistakes have I moved too fast ? or too slow?
maybe I played things wrong with her drunk texts.
just tell me where I've went wrong and how I should played it.
this post is extrememely hence why I put it in the reports section where most of the others are high in detail just get on your reading glasses despite being an overall fail I think I've displayed good text game for girls who dont like being chased.
thanks for reading