this is kind of a long field report but it happened the weekend before thanksgiving and i basically procrastinated in writing it. its a two parter because i have two sets that need attention. here it goes:

Part 1

right before thanksgiving, i went to a frat party (rave theme) where i was invited by some of my friends who are brothers in the house. i was opening a few sets here and there when i got to this sticky situation.

i find an HB7 and a 6 two set. i open by saying "i am quite jealous. i have such a cool glow stick that is soooo long and awesome yet yours is just really thick. i think i am getting a strange attraction to your glow stick because of its girth." i said this in a very sexual way that made her laugh and go on about where she got her glow stick.

anyway... her friend, the 6, was starting to be bitchy to take her friend back. i decided to defuse her by giving her some attention. i started talking to her about stuff and complimented her and then negged her. we got into this sort of verbal dual which eventually ended with me the winner . anyway... i figured to change location because we were close to the dance floor and kept having to move for people so i grabbed my target by the hand and said lets go somewhere where we arent getting bumped into. she held on fairly tightly and i led the way through the croud to a less crowded place.

when i get there i do the best friends test and they say that they have only known each other for about a week and then start giving each other girl eye contact. i call them out and say "see. you guys are just like best friends. all girls give their girl eye contact and look at each other before doing anything." the friend started to devalue my statement by saying that they havent known each other for too long (my target was really shy). we got into another verbal dual and i think she ended up winning that one.

after that, they looked at each other when my friend (who is a very pretty girl) came up and started bragging about me (lol yes i know... awesome timing and i didnt even tell her to do that HAHA). they were looking at each other and my target gave the friend a look saying that she should go after me. DAMN! i tried to talk to my target and mostly ignore the friend to get back on track but the target didnt say much because her friend was the one who was going for me. she even tried to step back and pretend to look around so i could talk to her friend. i didnt know what to do so i told them i had to get back to my friends and i would see the two of them around.

later i was grabbing a beer and hitting it off with this friggin hot HB9 when the friend of the HB7 came up and started talking to me. COCK BLOCKED!!! the HB9 said "well... nice meeting you" and walked off. then the friend started talking to me and giving me shit tests straight off with "wow... you are such a player arent you?" i just replied that hey she was just a nice girl using her beauty to fetch me a drink (which was true ) after a few minutes i left her and went back to some friends i had been ignoring the whole time.

question: what should i do next time to keep the friend on my side but not have the friend become the target in their eyes?

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Part 2

the first target i opened was a two set (HB7.5 and 5) on the dance floor. i was dancing with a friend because one of our favorite songs was playing so that got us in the mood haha. anyway... the 7.5 lets out a "WOOOO HOOOO!!!" and does the metal thing l,,l, ,l,,l with her hands. i promptly return it and go up and say "damn you have an awesome energy. i am going to hang out with you because we make these people look boring." things are went well for about 10 minutes but then it starts to die off so i made a comment about how i am going to go find a glowstick and she says she is going to do the same so we part ways.

i pawned some other girl to give me a glowstick so i could use it for more sets that night. she eventually comes around where i was talking to 3 friends of mine so i pull her in and show her i found a glowstick and she shows me hers. she is sooo energetic that she is starting to take my frame and people start to try and grab her attention. then she takes my glowstick and says that its hers now. i trick her and snatch it back. she is then trying to grab it from me and is jumping all around me going for it so i have her back in my frame. i dont give in but some guy grabs it from behind me and gives it to her. she doesnt even acknowledge him but comes up to me really close and just grabs my balls.

normally this is a good sign but i freak out a bit and back off. i think this is mostly because i was around my afc friends and for some reason they give me anxiety so i hardly ever sarge around them. something i need to get over :/

anyway... she seemed kinda whorish so i think if i would have pulled the trigger, she wouldnt have felt like a slut because she is a slut haha. lesson learned. no location transitioning needed

anyway... she eventually leaves and about an hour later i see her making out with some chode on the dance floor. made me think that she probably has slept with every guy there and probably has and std. i dont think i should go for slutty girls because of this no matter how easy or hot they are.

what do you guys think i could have done differently here?